SetH
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Loads of bad points shelleh. Its very hard to trust someone 230 miles away, we do both trust each other but it doesnt 100% stop the paranoid feelings we both get when we know one of us is going clubbing. I know she wouldnt do anything, i keep telling myself that but cant help the feelings  If she lived with or near me it wouldnt feel so bad i guess. Shes probably worse then me for being paranoid though which is why i havent been on a lads night for ages.
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Tracey
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i'm in Bristol cow girl.
yes- i am secretly havinf a fling with Ben
but OFFICALLY with Foz
you get me lurver 
i get u princess
man i luv you 
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dj_mikey_k
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u have to be in love for a long distance relationship to work
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Shelly
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I have to say I get paranoid too. But thats just because you don't wanna loose something good you got. Thats what I feel like anyway.
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R Lee
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i speak to her online a lot, but there is that trust element
shes a very nice looking girl...
i often think too good for me
[Edited on 04-11-2003 by GoldPenguin]
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Shelly
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no one is too good for anyone, we each have our own faults and loveable qualities. some people think that they are not perfect looking they dont deserve to be with someone handsome/pretty but we are all someones pin up.
[Edited on 04-11-2003 by Shelly]
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SetH
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i speak to her online a lot, but there is that trust element
shes a very nice looking girl...
i often think too good for me
Ditto to that mate, my gfriend has got a really friendly sweet look about her, unfortunately that attracts ars3holes. my flat mates gfriend is gorgeous but shes got a bit of a "im an evil b1tch" look about her that works as a good defence 
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R Lee
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you're good shelly...
you pick me up when im down on the floor...awww 
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SetH
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yes shelly is quality for that 
Forgot to add in my post that its not that i dont trust her, its the knowing that ar3eholes are trying to take advantage of her sweet nature that makes me paranoid. Maybe some of you guys can relate to that, or perhaps im just fcuked up. Shes too nice to tell people to fcuk off, i mean from a blokes point of view if you approach a girl in a club and start having a conversation with her that lasts then 10 seconds you think you are in there? am i correct?
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Shelly
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its true though. can you all imagine what this world would be like if we all fancied the same type of person. there would be no love.
i would say that if your willing and patient give your relationship a go. you can use a few months to build up a good friendship between you both and then if things are still good carry things on when she moves up to Lancashire.
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Shelly
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Forgot to add in my post that its not that i dont trust her, its the knowing that ar3eholes are trying to take advantage of her sweet nature that makes me paranoid. Maybe some of you guys can relate to that, or perhaps im just fcuked up. Shes too nice to tell people to fcuk off, i mean from a blokes point of view if you approach a girl in a club and start having a conversation with her that lasts then 10 seconds you think you are in there? am i correct?
As I once said to Mikey, I trust him it's other girls I don't trust.
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R Lee
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here here
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SetH
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As I once said to Mikey, I trust him it's other girls I don't trust.
OMG manda said the same thing to me! i said that all the girls i know down here know how much i love you etc etc, and she said that doesnt stop some women, is this true? women r teh evil?
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Shelly
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I hope it works out for you, cos finding that special person is well worth it.
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Foz
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I luv u 2 Trace.........
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Shelly
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OMG manda said the same thing to me! i said that all the girls i know down here know how much i love you etc etc, and she said that doesnt stop some women, is this true? women r teh evil?
Yeah women are as bad. Especially the slags who think they can have anyone and will try it on, or if they want something you have. Its not just people trying it on, its the ones who start malicious talk as well.
If your a strong person and really love someone you will get through all that though.
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Luke1.4
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Go for it m8 if she is moving on jan 31st it far off.
Ive been going out with my g/f for over 3 yrs she lives 40miles away we knew each other for about 4 months b4 we started going out in that time we jus spoke on phone and the net think i saw her twice in that time which include when we first met so get 2 know her up till she moves. I see my g/f at weekends so we dont argue and we appreciate are time togther. i get freedom in the week and if i want 2 see her in the week i can jus go only an hour drive away. You will also learn 2 trust each other which will make a better relationship for the future
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Shelly
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Go for it m8 if she is moving on jan 31st it far off.
Ive been going out with my g/f for over 3 yrs she lives 40miles away we knew each other for about 4 months b4 we started going out in that time we jus spoke on phone and the net think i saw her twice in that time which include when we first met so get 2 know her up till she moves. I see my g/f at weekends so we dont argue and we appreciate are time togther. i get freedom in the week and if i want 2 see her in the week i can jus go only an hour drive away. You will also learn 2 trust each other which will make a better relationship for the future
wheres your woman live Luke?
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Luke1.4
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Bolton and im blackpool
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Shelly
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bit like me
Widnes and im in Clitheroe
You think travelling is a pain?
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Luke1.4
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Travelling isnt as much a pain now i have a car!
I dunno i enjoy driving it is a ballache especailly if you want a drink but its worth it, it will be better when rachel passes her test so we can share the driving. petrol cost can be a pain
[Edited on 04-11-2003 by Luke1.4]
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Kerry
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i have and i wouldnt again but then how am i to know wots goin to happen in the future. u cant help who u fall for
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