DanielJ
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Registered: 21st Nov 01
Location: gwent, south wales
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rite basically heres how it is, me and best m8, been practically unseprable since her and her ex broke up which was messy an still goes on to this day, rite so she says she'll never end up meetin another boy tidy cos shes goin 2 NZ soon, i dont see her with a week an shes startd goin out with a few other ppl, i didnt mind tha, but she startd acting really wierd, rushing to get off the fone etc etc, found out tonight now shes been seein one of the ppl shes recently startd goin out with an without telling me basically droped me on my arse after bein ther for her for 5 months solid wen she needed me, an wen i need her now shes nowher 2 be seen, am i overreacting or has she dun me right ova
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Icy
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Registered: 31st Jan 01
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but u werent going out tho?
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Ian
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Registered: 28th Aug 99
Location: Liverpool
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No you've been there for her when it mattered and now she's simply distracted elsewhere.
If she's happy then let her have that. At least you can sit back in the knowledge that you contributed to that having not given to receive!
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bradfincham
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Registered: 20th Sep 02
Location: East Of England Drives: Clio 172
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FRIENDS, they do this to you! and she isnt attatched to you
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DanielJ
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Registered: 21st Nov 01
Location: gwent, south wales
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no, but practically yes, she luved me i luved her did all the bf gf stuff, i n pissd off bout the bf thing jus wen she tells me i luv u ur my best m8 in the world an she then doesnt even tell me tha shes seein sum1 feels like im worthless
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bradfincham
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Registered: 20th Sep 02
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shes not a real mate then
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DanielJ
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Registered: 21st Nov 01
Location: gwent, south wales
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ye think thas wa i'll do cheers ian, i got alot on my plate at the mo an wen i needed her 2nite 4 a chat she wern nowher 2 b seen, but 2 later get told o i was out with laura smokin drugs it really gets 2 me
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bradfincham
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give her space and watch who u get close too in the future mate
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DanielJ
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Registered: 21st Nov 01
Location: gwent, south wales
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ye, what a waste of 3 yrs friendship eh
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Sooty
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Registered: 9th Mar 03
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no bother mate, I just wasted 1 yrs friendship this week lol
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mav
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Registered: 19th Jun 01
Location: Scotland
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wouldn't say your over reacting..you've been there for this girl during hard times but as soon as she finds a bf she dumps you..
Not a true friend m8..
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Graham
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Registered: 12th Oct 03
Location: Lincoln.
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i had the same problem, i let her get on with it, didnt contact her or owt, then when it all goes wrong agen i let her suffer on her own to realise wat she had done
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Demo
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Registered: 27th Sep 01
Location: south wales Drives: astra sri ecoflex
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quote:
Originally posted by DanielJ
rite basically heres how it is, me and best m8, been practically unseprable since her and her ex broke up which was messy an still goes on to this day, rite so she says she'll never end up meetin another boy tidy cos shes goin 2 NZ soon, i dont see her with a week an shes startd goin out with a few other ppl, i didnt mind tha, but she startd acting really wierd, rushing to get off the fone etc etc, found out tonight now shes been seein one of the ppl shes recently startd goin out with an without telling me basically droped me on my arse after bein ther for her for 5 months solid wen she needed me, an wen i need her now shes nowher 2 be seen, am i overreacting or has she dun me right ova
jealousy perhaps 
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MatthewR
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Registered: 21st Oct 02
Location: Rickmansworth
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If you are MATES as u say then u were doing a MATE thing and being there for her when she needed you, probably acting weird coz she dont wanna hurt ur feelings! !
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M2RTY
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Registered: 25th May 01
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the full stop monster strikes again!!
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M2RTY
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Registered: 25th May 01
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seriously tho, seen it all happen b4, over reacting at this point in time
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Scott M
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Registered: 15th Feb 01
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I reckon over reacting a bit, did she know that you wanted to chat and needed her company at the time?
I wouldn't say you can base a friendship on the fact that your gonna get something back every time you give.
[Edited on 25-11-2003 by Scott M]
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Richie
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Registered: 3rd Dec 02
Location: Newport, Wales
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this has recently happened to me but it was a 7 year relationship. She just totally chucked me to the side after being there for her 24/7 for 7 years.
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Marc
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Registered: 11th Aug 02
Location: York
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sounds like a woman to me!
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CORSA NUT
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Location: Wirral
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quote:
Originally posted by M2RV H
the full stop monster strikes again!!
And te spelloingg monstr
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Makarus
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Registered: 25th Jun 02
Location: Nottingham/Derbyshire Boarder.
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I have similar, I am really good mates with this girl, so far as to say best mates.
We ended up shagging and shit, tried relationship, then called it off, trying just shagging when we need to now and see how it goes, but personally I would still be happy if she found someone she was happy with.
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