Desmond
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How shite is this......
To cut a long story short, was with a lass for 4 and a half years. We was engaged. Have a 60k joint mortgage on a house (worth 110k). Have a 1 year old baby etc etc.
Bout 4 months ago I caught her actually in bed with some one else. As you do you lose your head. Smashed a few things up etc... Hmmm what you get a police caution. Ok ill take that one.
Bout 3 weeks after that I decide to forgive her just for the sake of the baby, 7 weeks ago I find out that she never stopped seing this other lad. Dick head me, so what do you do - send her packing.
Firstly she wont let me see the baby till everything has gone to court.
then secondly, I get a letter from her solicitor, basically saying her parents house is not fit for her to bring up a baby. So I have 14 days to move out of my house so she can move back in. Best thing is we only got a joint mortgage so they would give us the amount we require...... she has never paid a dime to the house.
So she cheats on my, breaks up the family, nothing but a slag then is entitled to the house. I am expected to carry on paying the mortgage for her to live here or the house gets reposesed and I get major blacklisted.
How does that work then?
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Marc
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cant you go to your solicitor and prove that it was you that paid for the house and that you would be the better parent??
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purple_corsa_gls
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Or forge her signature transferring the mortgage to her name, giving her the burden of the blacklisted credit history 
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nickyboy01
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Location: Oxford-ish
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If its a joint mortgage then she has no legal right to evict you unless she takes your share of the mortgage (all of it) then you'll have to arrange maintenance etc seperately.
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MatthewR
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Beat up that geezer firstly, get a women mate to biatch slap her and then go Solicitors aswell, just coz shes been to the solicitors 1st dont let her take the piss mate
[Edited on 11-08-2004 by Evisu]
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Thoday
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surely if its joint she has no rights to evict u, get a decent solicitor, she has rights to the child that u will have to fight for but for the house she would have to take over the mortgage if she wants it all 2 herself...
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vibrio
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quote:
Originally posted by Desmond
How shite is this......
To cut a long story short, was with a lass for 4 and a half years. We was engaged. Have a 60k joint mortgage on a house (worth 110k). Have a 1 year old baby etc etc.
Bout 4 months ago I caught her actually in bed with some one else. As you do you lose your head. Smashed a few things up etc... Hmmm what you get a police caution. Ok ill take that one.
Bout 3 weeks after that I decide to forgive her just for the sake of the baby, 7 weeks ago I find out that she never stopped seing this other lad. Dick head me, so what do you do - send her packing.
Firstly she wont let me see the baby till everything has gone to court.
then secondly, I get a letter from her solicitor, basically saying her parents house is not fit for her to bring up a baby. So I have 14 days to move out of my house so she can move back in. Best thing is we only got a joint mortgage so they would give us the amount we require...... she has never paid a dime to the house.
So she cheats on my, breaks up the family, nothing but a slag then is entitled to the house. I am expected to carry on paying the mortgage for her to live here or the house gets reposesed and I get major blacklisted.
How does that work then?
no - trying to scare you. if the mortgage is joint then your name is on the deeds who own half the house. inform him to GTF. as for the child you have rights too and she can't stop you from seeing it.
you can argue that as she has not piad a penny to the house she is not entiled to have a share. your not married and she was cheating on you. I would defo get a Solicitor.
[Edited on 11-08-2004 by vibrio]
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Gavin
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wheres the equal opportunities for mn here then!!!!!!!!
in most cases this happenes where the bloke loses out on the kids, house and shed loads of money and it was all due to the woman cheating on him 
pew pew pew pewwwww
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Siberia
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dunno about english law but over here your can opt to sell the house. Then it either goes on the market or she buys your have.
Either way u win as regards the house.
Shame about the child though ya will haveta figure something else out there.
should have added... i proabably would have choped her head off if i caught her cheating
[Edited on 11-08-2004 by Siberia]
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CORSA NUT
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Kin ell Des 
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Jambo
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and of course its always the men who cheat 
I hate the way men get such a bad press when women are just as bad
Good luck desomnd, i reccomend a trip to the C.A.B and to your solicitors. 
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Adam-D
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Registered: 11th May 02
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shit id be erm a little
get a solicitor pronto
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Ben
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if u can proove u have paid all bills and she aint contriuted it will be on your side , her solisitor can not tell u to leave the house , it will have to go to court , same as if u want to get a squatter out , can take upto 6months tho so u will be ok. as for him , i would make sure he was sorry the twat.
father rents a few houses out, got a few pikeys in it trashing place , only way to get them out was to get a court order ect which would take months , instead ma dad and 2 mates went round and kinda didnt give them any other option to leave if ya get me
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Matt H
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dont take no shit des shes a fuckin bitch
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Stone Cold Rattlesnake
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Never trust any bitches or ho's 
hope it works out for you though - like ppl have already said get a solicitor and fight back!!!
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