sassyminx
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Well i started seeing someone bout 3 weeks ago, and things have never been better, we get on really well and love bein with each other, spend as much time together as we can etc, and today i got a txt off him....
"Hey babe, can u ring me when u get a minute i need to talk to u about something, dont worry its not that bad, miss you gorgeous, take care xxxxxxxx"
(no comments plz  )
and i got it at 2pm, only just checked my fone, and i was like   convinced hes gunna get back with an ex or summat or hes finishing me
rang him,and he was like u ok babe, etc, completely normal, asked how the kids were, im dead nervous and ask wots wrong
he says to me " ive had a really big decision to make and i need to talk to u about it"
at this point i was proper shittin myself, preparing for the worst, and he says
" when i was at uni, me any my mate were on about going travelling in China this year, before he got a job after graduating, he said..... were on about going to china, and 2 flights came up really cheap and weve got the tickets and we leave on the 30th. ill understand if u dont want to see me again, but i really want u and i know its really bad timing, but thought i better tell u so u can decide wot u want, i dont want to push u into a decision, and i cant believe its come up now, but i really think the world of u and want u to know that"
so i kinda sat there for a min an dint say nowt, cos i was totally gopbsmacked,and i decided that im gunna wait, he goes away the 30th of july til the 28th of august
i really like him and i know he does me, do u think im doin the right thing? i know its gunna be so hard cos were like really gettin on well, but i wudnt want to be selfish and say no cos ur goin away for a month, id take the opportunity to go away, any1 wud wudnt they
i just know its gunna be so hard knowin he goes away next friday and i wont see him for a month. id never cheat on him or anything, and i know he is worth waiting for but i wasnt expecting it and im totally gutted
grrrrrrrrrr y do things always happen to me?
i had long distance relationships bfore where i aint seen the person for like 4-5 weeks and i can do it, but i wasnt prepared for this at all
do u think im doin the right thing? i dont want to lose him and he told me he doesnt want to lose me but the balls in my court cos he wud stay with me forever
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[Edited on 20-07-2004 by Ian]
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Nismo
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fooking essay ,
i say yes.
i havent read it thou 
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sassyminx
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Pablo
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U always have similar problems, learn from ur mistake and do same thing to solve it next time
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chris_uk
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wait for him babe.. your really nice and hes lucky to have you, if you like him as much as you say id wait..
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Pablo
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quote:
Originally posted by Nismo
fooking essay ,
i say yes.
i havent read it thou
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sassyminx
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Originally posted by P4UL
U always have similar problems, learn from ur mistake and do same thing to solve it next time
none of my boyfriends have left me for a month
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Pablo
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twice
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sassyminx
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eh
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chanel
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if you really like him - a month is not that long to wait  so yes you are doin the right thing IMO
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life_cooler
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a month apart is nothing - stay faithful to him and he's going to respect you and love you even more when he comes back and if he doesn't make it, you'll be a good guy in the end of the day. Life is short but I am sure you can stay alone for a month waiting for someone who you really want to be together with
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J da Silva
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bin him and stick to the corsasport lads
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sassyminx
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i do want him more than anything, its gunna be so hard but i know i can do it
just rang him and told him i will wait for him, he said to me
"babe u know ur the most perfect girlfriend in the world, i cant believe how lucky i am to have someone like u, u dont realise how much im gunna miss u but ill spend all my time with u as soon as i get back and all nxt week before i go "
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Pablo
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mint that like
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chris_uk
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sweet... how old is he??
he looks about 15..
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Shane
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atleast he told u just w8 till he gets back, if u still feel the same then u know uve got something good 
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sassyminx
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quote:
Originally posted by chris_uk
sweet... how old is he??
he looks about 15..
23 while hes away
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James_DT
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Go for it.
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mav
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wait if you like him...
Mind you what will he be getting upto maybe nuthin if he likes you that much..............
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Jules S
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AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH^^^^^^^^^
feck knows why anyone would want to visit china though
wait for him kidda, its only a month.
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sassyminx
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quote:
Originally posted by mav
wait if you like him...
Mind you what will he be getting upto maybe nuthin if he likes you that much..............
he told me he wants me more than anything and i trust him
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Adam
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Bridge Jump
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sassyminx
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Bridge Jump
wot?
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stubee
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You know what i think, stop being so soft you muppet and doing what you always do
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"oh i'll move slower, i'm not rushing this time honest"
and he does look like Pete,
Keep yer chin up, you'll get over it.
Stu
[Edited on 20-07-2004 by stubee]
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Adam
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quote:
Originally posted by sassyminx
quote:
Originally posted by chris_uk
sweet... how old is he??
he looks about 15..
23 while hes away
then 15 again when he gets back?
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