Corsa Matt
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Ok a bit of a dilema here,
My pregnant fiance who I have been with for 3 years now has stunned me today by asking me if I would consider a theesome with her and her best mate?
at first I thought that she was just joking, but she is being serious.
She admited last year that her and her mate had dabbled together in the past and wanted to include me?
Her mate is fit and if I was single you would not kick her out of bed for farting but we are getting married later this year and have a baby due in March.
She assured me that nothing has happend since I have been with her and she isnt a lesbian.
It isnt like our sex life is shit or anything.
I'm not a fag or anything but i'm just a little stunned?
Anyone else been in this situation?
[Edited on 11-01-2009 by Corsa Matt]
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Half Pint
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pics....
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mattk
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no I havent been in this situation 
you bastard
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Ben G
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no but if i'm being mature, don't go through with it! it will fuck your relationship up.
if i'm being a typical CS guy, break both their back doors in and get pics of your girlfreind felching your spunk out of her mates arse 
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Corsa Matt
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quote:
Originally posted by Ben G
no but if i'm being mature, don't go through with it! it will fuck your relationship up.
if i'm being a typical CS guy, break both their back doors in and get pics of your girlfreind felching your spunk out of her mates arse
Thats just it, I am being mature. Why do I get an offer like this when I think it will fuck up my relationship.
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Ben G
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if you read dear deirdre like i do then you'll see why it fucks relatioships up  shame really, would be fucking good fun  
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mattk
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you will only get that offer once, if she is comfortable with you touching / fucking her mate then go for it, if there is any doubt that shes comfortable about it dont!
Ive been barking up this tree for years, its a firm no go for me
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flybikeslee
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if you don't, someone else will
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csweatherston
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you can marry / have kids with anyone.
you will only get this offer one in your life.. you have to take the opertunity
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K17STY
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Maybe its a test. You could be doomed if you say yes.
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Corsa Matt
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quote:
Originally posted by K17STY
Maybe its a test. You could be doomed if you say yes.
She has no reason to test me, I have never cheated on her. I do have my head screwed on and 99.9% wont do it, but that 0.1% is saying do it.
I just have too much to loose if it all goes wrong.
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J da Silva
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Best thing to do is 'live' first the settle down, that's what I did, not both at the same time. 
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Twiggy
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do not even go there....
if you were single no commitments jump in....
[Edited on 11-01-2009 by Twiggy]
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J da Silva
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"Aye up my love, I've gorra suggestion,
Aye up my love, wanna feel my erection?
Aye up my love, do you wanna meat injection?
YOUR EYES ARE BEAUTIFUL BROWN!!"
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Twiggy
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lol!!!!!!!
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Ian
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Every single bit of good advice says that stuff like this is bad for relationships. Plus even if she feels OK now, that isn't to say that won't change and she'll either fall our with her mate or you or both.
There's also the issue that you and her mate may get closer without her.
Ultimately only you knows how sound she is with such a thing.
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Jamescorsa97
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If I was in your position I would just be asking why she wants to do it???
What has made her want to have sex with another woman as well?
What if she enjoyed it more with the woman??
Do you wanna share your GF??
So many questions to answer,but if I was ina relationship and due to be married I would think there would be consequences to doing this. Personally I would say no. If I was single HELL YES!!! I actually know a mate who did this and he came home from work to find his lass in bed with her so called mate and they ended up splitting LOL!!
[Edited on 11-01-2009 by Jamescorsa97]
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Ste
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Just do it and don't be gay. just don't get the mate pregnant too.
I would rather lose by a mile because i built my own car, than win by an inch because someone else built it for me.
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Faye_2003
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or get em both pregnant 
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CorsAsh
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quote:
Originally posted by K17STY
Maybe its a test. You could be doomed if you say yes.
This was my first thought too, if you say yes and you're supposed to be settling down, getting married etc, it could be some twisted trial to make sure you're the one for her. And a yes could be a BIG fail.
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Ian
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Just to present a balanced argument I'm also going to say that she just might simply like good unconventional sex. The sex life already being good is an indicator to that, she's just pushing the envelope.
It's also better to regret something you have done than something you haven't. And it will be boss while you're doing it
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CorsAsh
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Plus it'll be a great story to tell your kid when it turns 18... "When your mum was pregnant with you, I had a threesome with her and a mate... It was BOSS!"
*cue therapy sessions*
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K17STY
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you sure its not just her crazy pregnant lady hormones?
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Ste
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Just enjoy your troika and get on with it, just to reiterate on what Ian said, better to regret what you have done than what you could have missed out on.
She may want to get it done before marriage on moral grounds. If I were you, I'd be in there no hesitations.
I would rather lose by a mile because i built my own car, than win by an inch because someone else built it for me.
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Sam
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Your both getting married and she is having your baby?
I might sound old fashioned here, but I thnk she needs to grow up and face up to her responsibilities.
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