K2 GTi
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Anyone had this recently?
Bit depressing, hard to get over the fact etc..
What can I do to get over it?
I don't feel right going out and getting leathered, it will make things worse.
Anyone else feel my pain at the moment?
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willay
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keep yourself busy, stay away from anything romantic, watch a violent film. TBH
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mattk
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a big stack of porn and wank till your bell is like a blind cobblers thumb
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pow
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It's very difficult, going from everything to nothing.
Just keep busy, get involved with your mates
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K2 GTi
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Lol, its like we have the radio on at work, and every song that comes on reminds me of her.,... hard times, just feel down today
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K2 GTi
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The prob main thing is no company anymore... don't have anywhere to go to relax, dont have sex on tap... had times
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SetH
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Sorry to hear that mate, always harder this time of year as well.
Theres no quick fix to this, I know its cliched but you just have to give it time. Each person is different but in 6 months, a year, 2 years you probably wont care.
Not much help I know but after being in this situation too often for my liking and same with friends only healer we can think of is time
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K2 GTi
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Yeah I know SetH.
Its just that bad ive had to revert to an internet forum
Suppose it helps though
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SetH
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Yeah it does help bud. You should see my facebook status recently, people keep commenting how deep they are etc but its my way of venting i guess.
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K2 GTi
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going to be a hard few weeks.. its because you get into a routine of going round, watching TV, and just general talking about anything..
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Pablo
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porn
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K2 GTi
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see that would be okay... but I dont feel like whacking one off lol
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pow
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I know EXACTLY how you feel, time is the best healer though!
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K2 GTi
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Yeah, im used to sending text after text and stuff.. so im trying not to look at my phone!!
Women have such an effect on men its fucking unreal
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SetH
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quote: Women have such an effect on men its fucking unreal
Yes and we are still made out to be the barstads when a lot of them are icemaidens which is far worse in terms of emotional trauma tbh.
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sc0ott
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thats why if you think your relationship is getting worse, go find another girl to fall back on.
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SetH
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quote: Originally posted by sc0ott
thats why if you think your relationship is getting worse, go find another girl to fall back on.
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Pablo
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find another girl to txt, it works
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SetH
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Maybe now is the ideal oppertunity to convert to HEFFER
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K2 GTi
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I know. The thing is I left her too.. Id like to explain the reasons but its really complicated..
I have loads I could text but they're all roar!!
I need fresh meat, and facebook isnt being the answer at the moment!!
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Pablo
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Go out then mate, meet some new ones... only way
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K2 GTi
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I know its hard though
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willay
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fuck meating some new birds right now, you will only feel worse off afterwards. you need time to sort out your head
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SetH
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Listen to uncle willeh
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Jenko_Sport
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Just go out with mates and try have a laff, go out and buy yourself something.
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