Jamescorsa97
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Any of you lads ever had this?
I have the option to put a lock on my phone but I havn't because I have nothing to hide.
Do you think it's wrong and what would you do about it?
Same goes for the ladies really.
James
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DannyB
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Shows she can't trust you if she resorts to that, that is no base for a relationship.
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chris_uk
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i personally thing its wrong for anyone to look through someone elses phone.
she did it to me once, and i told her if she did it again then i would finish her.
shes never done it since.
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Jamescorsa97
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quote:
Originally posted by DannyB
Shows she can't trust you if she resorts to that, that is no base for a relationship.
Exactly what I have been thinking.
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Pip308
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my missus wouldnt and i wouldnt with her, i trust her, and she trusts me.
ex used to do it, turns out when i did the same she went apeshit as she had messages of another bloke that i didnt approve of
Phil
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Lynny
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Yup had it a few times (boyfriend not girlfriend obviously).
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pow
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quote:
Originally posted by pip308
my missus wouldnt and i wouldnt with her, i trust her, and she trusts me.
ex used to do it, turns out when i did the same she went apeshit as she had messages of another bloke that i didnt approve of
Phil
I did it once when I suspected someone else a year or so ago, proves I was right
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Pip308
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quote:
Originally posted by pow
quote:
Originally posted by pip308
my missus wouldnt and i wouldnt with her, i trust her, and she trusts me.
ex used to do it, turns out when i did the same she went apeshit as she had messages of another bloke that i didnt approve of
Phil
I did it once when I suspected someone else a year or so ago, proves I was right
sucks 
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Shell
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Some people are just downright nosey, so I'd speak to her about it. It may not be that she doesn't trust you.
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Marc
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Girls always do this 
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Ben G
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my missus does it occassionally.
her excuse is ''if you don't have anything to hide then why would you worry''.
i don't, its just a privacy thing. i could have personal information on there about what i'm getting her for birthday etc etc.
she hasn't done it for a while though so think talking to her worked.
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Budgie
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quote:
Originally posted by pow
quote:
Originally posted by pip308
my missus wouldnt and i wouldnt with her, i trust her, and she trusts me.
ex used to do it, turns out when i did the same she went apeshit as she had messages of another bloke that i didnt approve of
Phil
I did it once when I suspected someone else a year or so ago, proves I was right
+1 relationship didnt last much longer after that lol
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Pip308
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quote:
Originally posted by Budgie
quote:
Originally posted by pow
quote:
Originally posted by pip308
my missus wouldnt and i wouldnt with her, i trust her, and she trusts me.
ex used to do it, turns out when i did the same she went apeshit as she had messages of another bloke that i didnt approve of
Phil
I did it once when I suspected someone else a year or so ago, proves I was right
+1 relationship didnt last much longer after that lol
you've only had one steve....
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Lynny
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quote:
Originally posted by Marc
Girls always do this
don't think I've ever done it 
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Budgie
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quote:
Originally posted by pip308
you've only had one steve....
One gf? you sure? I can think of 3. What kind of best mate are you
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Fro
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From past experience when they have done it, it was through their own guilt of messing around behind my back.
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Eck
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quote:
Originally posted by chris_uk
i personally thing its wrong for anyone to look through someone elses phone.
she did it to me once, and i told her if she did it again then i would finish her.
shes never done it since.
Like that Chris?
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Pip308
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quote:
Originally posted by Budgie
quote:
Originally posted by pip308
you've only had one steve....
One gf? you sure? I can think of 3. What kind of best mate are you
i was only counting the legal ones...
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LukeS
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Richardhhha
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had my ex's do this a bit so i just set the phone to ask for a pin number if you wanted to unlock it, never had the problem again
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LukeS
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Had a few people do it to me, but now im not fussed, i barely use the thing.
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Cosmo
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quote:
Originally posted by LukeS
Had a few people do it to me, but now im not fussed, i barely use the thing.
So gays are just as nosey are they?
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LukeS
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Very actually, they like to poke around fairly often if im honest
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GF-91
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Had it once but I constantly had to check her phone too.
Turns out, the innocent friendship later turned into their relationship, after we broke up, that is. She checked mine to see what I'd been saying Lol.
Wow, I wish I. Was playing away tbh would have saved the drama.
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Daimo B
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New relationship, understandable, after all its a new relationship and trust is being built.
If it keeps happening after a while, there is an issue. DOn't use the "its my privacy" line, that'll make it worse, do any of you guys understand women
Using the line of something like "i keep notes, i.e lists of presents you say you like so come christmas/birthday etc you get what you want".
Proves you have nothing to hide, and stops her snooping and ruining her own presents. Give a a reason, not just a "its my privacy" that will get you no-where and only cause less trust.
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