Marc
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Forget the girls in pornos, girls you see on a night out in Revs etc.
I imagine most see themselves ending up with some hottie a la the FB Fittie Thread, but what if you started seeing someone who isn't as hot as you saw yourself getting with?
Reason I ask is I've started seeing this Scottish lass who I met online, as usual their pics never really show the full picture! Met her and she didn't exactly look like I was expecting, but as I'm not entirely shallow I wanted to see how the night went and if we got on. We were out all night and there weren't any silent moments where you run out of things to say like can sometimes happen. So on the did we get on front things were going well. She ended up asking me back and I stayed the night. 2 days later she asked me what I was up to and invited me round to watch a film.
Now after this I didn't message etc for 4 days as I am still undecided. I've had people at work, my mates and my mum pestering me saying I should keep seeing her. So earlier this week I messaged her and we are going to do something tomorrow, she is still fairly new to York so plenty to do.
But, I really don't know what I'm feeling so far and not sure if its right that I keep seeing her if I don't know how in to her I am, is it actually worth me asking what she is looking for?
And no, I'm not posting pics!
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Ian
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Ugly birds are like mopeds. They're both fun to ride until your mates see you.
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Ian
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And in other news, yeah give it a go. Although on the basis she's sound and normal, nothing else. Personally I find birds that have to work a bit harder a bit more difficult because they've normally been messed about and hurt so the ones I dated were quite defensive and suspicious, which caused problems in itself.
But you do get to a point in life where you'd trade five Barbies for one normal bird. I'd actually go for non-stunners these days, less work and they're normally 10 times more interesting.
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Ben G
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Obviously looks are important as they're the first thing you're attracted to normally. Problem is, online dating is massive now, so personality seems to become more important.
No one wants a munter, but I also wouldn't want someone who I couldn't have a laugh with.
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Ian
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Online dating is about talking more shit than the next guy.
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Russ
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if you dont fancy her theres no point, will cloud your judgement and you end up doing things to be 'nice' rather than because you want to shag your hottie gf
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Marc
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Had the same convo with my mates, but the 3 pictures I showed them she looks hot.  
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Russ
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fucking instagram
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Ben G
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quote:
Originally posted by Ian
Online dating is about talking more shit than the next guy.
Depends if you go into it like a dog on heat I suppose.
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Russ
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i'd love it on pinkminicooper sport she had this same thread going about you
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Marc
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Yeah, she does drive a Corsa
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Marc
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Not sure if they will work on here, but as you can see, second pic looks a lot better 
If she is a member on here then I think I've probably answered any doubting questions I may have
[Edited on 16-11-2013 by Marc]
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_Allan_
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If she is a member on here I doubt you will be worrying about a 3rd date
 mystery average bird
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Russ
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your an ugly cunt marc so i'd take it
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Marc
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Thanks Russ.
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Ian
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Bad move leaving that Facebook URL in the photo.
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Marc
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I'll delete now you've all seen!
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_Allan_
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Too late, message on way with thread link.
j/k don't even have an account 
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Dom
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Missed it; pics?
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Baskey
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She looked fine in the photo, if she's a good shag go for it. Can always run away at a later date
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Colin
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Get her pumped!!
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3CorsaMeal
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Does she make a nice sandwich?
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Generation
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Want a relationship go for personality over looks.
Been out with a few lookers when I was
Younger, and everything seems such a hassle and hard work. Constantly conscious checking reflection in shop windows etc, fuck that.
If you can find a stunner with great personality - great.
If you've connected with this person though, give it a go. Worlds shallow enough as it is. Without another £600 handbag woman
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Jambo
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Finding the other person attractive is part of a relationship. If you don't and you get on, be mates.
Simples.
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Marc
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quote:
Originally posted by 3CorsaMeal
Does she make a nice sandwich?
Only made me a coffee
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