Tom
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Right this is a long story.
My best (who i have n#been best mate with 4 years and have been thru alot with .... pls take this into account) his bird, couple of other mates were out about 6 weeks ago.
There is a tradition of us all getting really pissed up n doing stoopid mad things that we each tell eachother about, we were out on this night out and apparantley i told his bird i wanted to rattle her (which i wud never ever think to do in any state, but apparantley i did) we spoke n stuff woke up next day and aint spoke to him since.
Been out with a few of mine/his mutual friends and txtd him a few times to try n sort going 4 a drink to discuss, and sort out cos' as i say he's my best mate.
He aint replied 4 ages n stuff n baiscally i've lost most of my friends as a result of this.
What do u think i shud do?
Realise this sounds really bad, and it is but i duno wot to do.
Please don't call me a wanka n stuff n say u deserve stuff cos' i just don't need no more of that.
We all used to go out n do mad stuff, can't be assed going in2 sum of it but has included him get pilled up n shagin another girl n me tryin to pull mingers n not knowing y the next day (or even who til' mates told me).
Feelin really down as have only really seen g/friend n work mates for 6 weeks oh and a few other good mates who have stood by me n think he's over reacting.
what to do? 
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Tom
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 which is also why i've been on here so much lately
feel like a geek spending so much time here
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Drew
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u wanker - nah just joking
have ya tried going round and talking to him face to face about it?
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kinkycorsa
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awww sounds bad
Firstly > drugs are bad shudnt do it 
Secondly > go round his house to talk about it tell him your sorry and explain. Buy him a bunch of flowers or a tickets to Max live or sumfin to let him know how sorry you are.
gd luck 
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vibrio
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quote:
Originally posted by Tom D
Right this is a long story.
My best (who i have n#been best mate with 4 years and have been thru alot with .... pls take this into account) his bird, couple of other mates were out about 6 weeks ago.
There is a tradition of us all getting really pissed up n doing stoopid mad things that we each tell eachother about, we were out on this night out and apparantley i told his bird i wanted to rattle her (which i wud never ever think to do in any state, but apparantley i did) we spoke n stuff woke up next day and aint spoke to him since.
Been out with a few of mine/his mutual friends and txtd him a few times to try n sort going 4 a drink to discuss, and sort out cos' as i say he's my best mate.
He aint replied 4 ages n stuff n baiscally i've lost most of my friends as a result of this.
What do u think i shud do?
Realise this sounds really bad, and it is but i duno wot to do.
Please don't call me a wanka n stuff n say u deserve stuff cos' i just don't need no more of that.
We all used to go out n do mad stuff, can't be assed going in2 sum of it but has included him get pilled up n shagin another girl n me tryin to pull mingers n not knowing y the next day (or even who til' mates told me).
Feelin really down as have only really seen g/friend n work mates for 6 weeks oh and a few other good mates who have stood by me n think he's over reacting.
what to do?
ignore it. so what you'd like to have his girlfriend.
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Tom
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Thanx 4 replying but I feel like i can't face him now been 2 long, n used to see him bout 4 times a week 4 about 5-6 years.
I know we cud sort it n stuff if we spoke but i can't seem to find the balls to speak to him.
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Trotty
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Agreed - I reckon he's over-reacting. You were all pissed, you all know each other well, what's he worried about? Call him and tell him to stop being a woman and go down the pub
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Red_SXi
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I'm sure if it was a one off, and he's your BEST mate he'd forgive you..... Wouldn't he ? Especially if you explain you was pissed etc.
[Edited on 05-07-2003 by Red_Sxi]
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kinkycorsa
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quote:
Originally posted by Tom D
Thanx 4 replying but I feel like i can't face him now been 2 long, n used to see him bout 4 times a week 4 about 5-6 years.
I know we cud sort it n stuff if we spoke but i can't seem to find the balls to speak to him.
You have got to swallow your pride and just go round > if you don't do it soon it will be even longer and even harder and a good friendship lost. Repair it now while you still can
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Tom
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Mad1 all my so called mates r stickin with him.
I'm tryin to think sensible about this, i've tried gettin him 2 cum 4 a bevvy with me n stuff but just aint working.
Vibs nah mate don't want his bird at all.
cheers trotty
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kinkycorsa
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Tom
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Yer i know but he's an angry little bastard n won't be able to get thru to him if i just turn up.
Redsxi, that's the worst part i reckon, we always said we'd never do that shit n i still wudn't.
I've had one of my mates bag off with one of my ex's n i 4gave him.
well stressed have been 4 weeks, will just drink sum more beer spose 4 now.
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Tom
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kinky corsa? 
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Drew
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buy a crate of beer - turn up on his doorstep with it - get pissed together
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kinkycorsa
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quote:
Originally posted by Tom D
kinky corsa?
wot????? was only sayin wot i think u shud do
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Tom
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Drew as i say this all sounds so simple just that it aint.
Spose i justneed to keep texting (aint even spoke on the phone) and hope he'll remember the fact that we've been best mates 4 years.
Oh the fact that another lad who he's been spending loads of time with lately is a shit stirrin prick and don't like me speaking my mind to him has a lot to do with it too.
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Tom
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quote:
Originally posted by kinkycorsa
No i meant this 
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kinkycorsa
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quote:
Originally posted by Tom D
Drew as i say this all sounds so simple just that it aint.
Spose i justneed to keep texting (aint even spoke on the phone) and hope he'll remember the fact that we've been best mates 4 years.
Oh the fact that another lad who he's been spending loads of time with lately is a shit stirrin prick and don't like me speaking my mind to him has a lot to do with it too.
sorry to be insensitive but this sounds like ur a married couple and he has gone off with a new man ( thought i'd lighten the mood)
[Edited on 05-07-2003 by kinkycorsa]
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vibrio
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Fuck his girlfriend to really piss him off for being a pussy
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DJGoMatt
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i reckon he's a bit immature carrying on like that, i do some really bad things when im out and they get forgotten about,
I had a mate ignoring me last week over something that happened, so i rang his house and spoke to his parents about it to see if they would speak sense into him, it worked, could be worth a try.
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Tom
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Yeah i thought that when i wrote it but didn't know how to put it aprt from " this other lad who he's been spending time with"
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kinkycorsa
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quote:
Originally posted by Tom D
Yeah i thought that when i wrote it but didn't know how to put it aprt from " this other lad who he's been spending time with"
like i said lightens the mood u'll sort it mate gd luck anyways im off out 
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BabyBlade
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Find a new mate, i would. cant stand mates like that. u were drunk nothing happened, girls come and go but what happened to best mates stickin together?!?!
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Tom
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DJGo would do but spose i'm bein bit of a pussy it's been weeks, parents proly only used 2 have a pint or 2 for a BIG NIGHT OUT SO WOULDN'T UNDERSTAND :MAD:
oops caps
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DJGoMatt
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worst people are ones that forget there mates when a girl comes along, but always regret it when they split up
thing is, parents might not understand the situation but if you can get them to say to him you wish it hadnt happened etc then he has heard it for definate and cant really ignore them, plus his mum will probably chase it up after a week and see if its sorted, and if not will probably say he's immature. i know my mam would
[Edited on 05-07-2003 by DJGoMatt]
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