Tom
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I know ppl might think it's sad posting it on here, but i wana no if ppl think ive done the right thing.
Was my decision, and i still love her n that but we argue 1/2 of the time.
i'm absolutely gutted, and i've broke her heart  wtf i gonna do ....
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the_legend_of_yrag
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Mabey you should just take a break, not finish it off completely...
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MarkM
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time apart is the best indication...u need to not see her for a good 2-3 weeks...if u find yourself missing her after this time...get back together if not...you know that she isnt important to you.
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greycorsa
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why did u break up with her if u love her? arguments are part n parcel of a good relationship 
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MarkM
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Take the rough with the smooth!
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BabyBlade
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relationships are confusing, i dumped my mrs three times and split for a month, we are now back together and i'm glad. Dont let her go so easily!!
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Tom
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She said it aint fair to have time apart to wait for inevitable...
Arguements are part n pacrel of r'ship but we been doing it too well n too often for a while, and we threaten to break up every time we argue....
I know i'll miss her n i'm so guted
[Edited on 19-07-2003 by Tom D]
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Tom
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Oh n she's always been adamant that if we break up it's for gud, I just broker her heart
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MatthewR
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Plenty more out there out fella! Obviously you'll be upset and that because you wont be used to being without her and doing stuff 2getha but change is good! 
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Tom
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well concerned about her tho, dun think i ever hurt anyone so much..
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kinkycorsa
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Well i'd say stick with it u must have thought about it lots. I split up with my ex after 3yrs and still loved him but knew it wasnt gettting anywhere > 4 months down the line im happier than ive ever been > he was really hurt and wud prob still have me back but at the end of the day if u even thought about it > she aint the right gal for ya. It will be hard for u both but things can only get better
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kinkycorsa
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quote:
Originally posted by Tom D
well concerned about her tho, dun think i ever hurt anyone so much..
She will hurt for a while but will move on eventually > trust me
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Tom
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cheers
I have thought about it loads n it dun make it any easier, i aint sure if i dun right thing or not.
sge dun trust me anymore either.
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Tom
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just got this txt
'your the love of my life & u will be 4eva. never gonna stop caring about u. ur the best thing that ever happened to me. gonna miss u like crazy. take care. love u xxx'
i'm such a kunt
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kinkycorsa
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No ur not > its probably better that u ended it if ur heart isnt in it. She's just upset! My ex sent me loads like that too > its prob cuz she is still hoping there is a chance u cud get back together.
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Tom
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but i aint 100% sure.
told her we wouldn't be able to end it if we carried on, never bin so gutted
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GREG 1
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why dont u talk about it over a nice meal this evening ?
then u can discuss the problems,and see if there is a future, you both seem to like each other !
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Tom
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but every time we talk, we say we will try harder not to argue etc, it don't ever happen...
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GREG 1
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been there b4 mate
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Tom
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cheers 4 advice peeps, gonna see how i feel in a coupla days
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Ian
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Make a decision and stick to it. From what I can see it looks like you have done the right one.
Having said that, you're both still a bit tied up in it, her especially, and she should have more consideration for the situation than do texting you with a 'love you forever' message. That's only going to burden you.
It takes some time to adjust to being without someone but don't confuse this with time to consider whether you're going to get back together. It's unfair to drag it out that far, as she's already mentioned.
No sense arguing anyway. My advice would always be that single and level headed beats tied and unhappy.
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kinkycorsa
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quote:
Originally posted by Ian
Make a decision and stick to it. From what I can see it looks like you have done the right one.
Having said that, you're both still a bit tied up in it, her especially, and she should have more consideration for the situation than do texting you with a 'love you forever' message. That's only going to burden you.
It takes some time to adjust to being without someone but don't confuse this with time to consider whether you're going to get back together. It's unfair to drag it out that far, as she's already mentioned.
No sense arguing anyway. My advice would always be that single and level headed beats tied and unhappy.
Good bit of advice there
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M4tt
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yes you have done the right thing... i split with my 2 and half year realtionship about 3 months ago....
i was really upset to begin with... but now i feel so much better.
we used to argue alot, but i thought i could deal with it, but i was really unhappy without raelly realising it. Besides she went off with my best mate n e way so she's a piece of crap and it's made me realise that the relationship wasn't worth it.
deffo take Ian's advice... stick to ur decision.
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Tom
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quote:
Originally posted by Ian
Make a decision and stick to it. From what I can see it looks like you have done the right one.
Having said that, you're both still a bit tied up in it, her especially, and she should have more consideration for the situation than do texting you with a 'love you forever' message. That's only going to burden you.
It takes some time to adjust to being without someone but don't confuse this with time to consider whether you're going to get back together. It's unfair to drag it out that far, as she's already mentioned.
No sense arguing anyway. My advice would always be that single and level headed beats tied and unhappy.
Ian cheers 4 advice, keep thinkin am gonna change mind etc but i know it aint fair on her.
bad situation, think i'll stick to my guns no matter how hard that may be.
just gutted.
matt thanx aswell....
oh n cheers 4 txt kerry
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Kerry
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quote:
Originally posted by Tom D
oh n cheers 4 txt kerry
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