Richie
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Registered: 3rd Dec 02
Location: Newport, Wales
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Known this girl for ages now n we were getting close m8's but stupid me asked to take things further and got rejected, so i stopped speakin to her for a while. She then got a boyfriend elsewhere. I txted her the other week and we met up last saturday and spent the night together n it was great. Now shes saying that she doesnt wanna be friends anymore and that we should stop talking.
What do i do 
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leni
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 respect her wishes! if she comes, back, it was ment to be, if she doesn't well it says it all!
just text every so often, always nice to have somone there and one day she may relise that she likes her "friend" better than her boyfriend!
It does happen, be patient!
leni
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Stuckey
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give her a slap for being a stupid woman
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Trotty
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 Talk about contrasting posts
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Richie
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im gutted to fuck here. Im tempted to go up there. I think her bf might have influenced her decision somehow.
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Drew
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u have just been used
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Drew
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quote:
Originally posted by leni
respect her wishes! if she comes, back, it was ment to be, if she doesn't well it says it all!
just text every so often, always nice to have somone there and one day she may relise that she likes her "friend" better than her boyfriend!
It does happen, be patient!
leni
leni - if i txt u occasionally - could u like ur 'friend' better than ur b'f?  
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big eck
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Try and talk to her face to face and lay all your cards on the table, only then will the pair of yous know where you stand, hope this helps m8.
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Richie
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its what im hoping to do mate, cheers.
Just hope her bf isnt there cos if he says 1 word bye bye her house and hello hospital for him
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Drew
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lmao - so big on the net - in reallity - he'll go up there - and get kicked to fuck - LOL
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big eck
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quote:
Originally posted by AustinPXX
its what im hoping to do mate, cheers.
Just hope her bf isnt there cos if he says 1 word bye bye her house and hello hospital for him
What ever you do dont talk to her when her bfs about it'll just make things swing his way, just get her on her own and make sure that the both of yous get everything off your chests. Good luck 
[Edited on 20-04-2003 by big eck]
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Drew
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she had a b'f - u should have left her alone - ya own fault
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leni
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Drew, it might do, I may talk from experience  I usually do! (but a long time ago )
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Drew
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imagine it was ur lass
and some lad txt her and she spent the nite with them
and next hes gunna go up to see ur lass
how would u like it?? 
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Drew
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quote:
Originally posted by leni
Drew, it might do, I may talk from experience I usually do! (but a long time ago )
wots ya number?
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J da Silva
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every1 says 'i'll put him in hospital' thats not gunna do u any good with her is it,she'll end up hating your guts mate
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Richie
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Drew ffs dont help do u? She didnt have a bf initially.
I aint acting hard on the net. I only fight if im provoked and this guy is an ass.
Ive won some, ive lost some, and ive only started 1 of them out of the many ive had.
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Drew
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no i aint helping -
ok i'll help.....
the lass has a lad
the lass cheated on the lad to be with u
the lass will cheat on u with other lads
helpful?
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J da Silva
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ive had quite a few, not lost many
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leni
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Austin chill!
she choose him over you! It's not his fault!!! just be patient. She's calling the shots and you don't wonna do anything rash that will put her off you!
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Richie
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Drew, we spent the night together as mates, didnt do anything at all.
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Drew
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so ya didnt kiss?
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Richie
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no m8.
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Drew
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okies - i'll let ya off
well in my opinion - she met up with ya - now doesnt wanna speak to ya no more, maybe she just decided that u wasnt the right person for her
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Richie
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aye but even if she doesnt wanna b 2gether i still want to be mates with her
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