C2RL R
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didn't think people in coma's could do half of that stuff. i'm quite suprised.
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stan_the_man
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quote: Originally posted by C2RL R
didn't think people in coma's could do half of that stuff. i'm quite suprised.
Neither did i.
Her heart rate shoots from 80ish to 100+ when i go and see her.
I make a point of putting on aftershave that i wore before the crash when i go see her. Anything to let her know that im there. Had to specially order it online
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Chris F
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Stick in there mate, your a true bf and a stunning about of time.
Like you said xmas and new years is over and u will be celebrating the next with her
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Phi
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i thinkits sad though like shes alive and its her body that wont allow her to just wake up and be who she is if you know what i mean?
so when people go into comas, is it somthing thats wrong with the brain that has caused it?? right??
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stan_the_man
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The way i see it (and my knowledge is still very limited) is that the brain has registered that there hes been a massive trauma, so shuts down anything thats not immediately necessary (most senses) to censerve energy and concentrates on healing itself.
I.E. It will only do this if it belives it can heal itself. Kind of like when your computer shits itself and go's into safe mode.
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Phi
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i see,
does her family go to her everyday?
what about her friends are they still there for her etc??
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C2RL R
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what level of coma is she in? i don't know anything about it really but just read up on wiki about it.
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Jenko_Sport
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Just hang in there mate but good to here she's slowly getting there.
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DC90
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I'm sure when she wakes up she will appreciate what you've done loads and all of these visits and showing you care will be completely worth it. As said previous, I have much respect for you.
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deano87
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quote: Originally posted by mattk
as everyone has said, hope it all improves soon, im sure it will do stay positive
the music can only do her good
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Dave86
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been said before, and will continue to get said, your a true gent, and you have all of my respect, shes a lucky lass having you! i hope she gets better soon mate, truly do. thats good about you wearing the same aftershave you had on before the crash, that can only be a good thing surely, and she must know your there! keep us posted dude.
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LeahWGA
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Glad she doing good Fingers x'd she wakes up soon
xxx
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stan_the_man
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quote: Originally posted by Corsa_phi
i see,
does her family go to her everyday?
what about her friends are they still there for her etc??
Yeah her Mum goes up every day pretty much. Yeah alot of her friends still go and see her too. Most are in Edinburgh at Uni though.
quote: Originally posted by C2RL R
what level of coma is she in? i don't know anything about it really but just read up on wiki about it.
I think she was a 6 or 7 last time i asked but she has progressed slightly since then, so maybe more.....
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C2RL R
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what was she when she was at the worst?
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Daniel_Corsa
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Keep in there mate, can't imagine what your actually going through and how you must feel but sounds like she is getting better slowly which is great!
I just hope when she does wake, you and her mam are both sitting there, so she knows you haven't given up on her!
I bet you come out of this a stronger person than ever before also
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stan_the_man
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quote: Originally posted by C2RL R
what was she when she was at the worst?
She was rock bottom at a 3. The lowest you can go. No response to anything at all. So there is a bit of progression at least..
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IvIarkgraham
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how long has she been in it now?
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Steve X16XE
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I think Monster went down to 8 or 9 but 3
Keep us all update like you are doing. When Monster came up to mine at the start of Dec he told me about your GF's acident so after then i've been keeping an eye out for her progress.
Just be careful when she wakes up that she doesn't blurt things out like Monster did in front of his mum and step dad. You'll have to ask him about that one.
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dan-sport
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quote: Originally posted by IvIarkgraham
how long has she been in it now?
says almost 4 months
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Graham88
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I'm glad she is getting better, it might be slow but it's an improvement at least. Good luck.
quote: Originally posted by Steve X16XE
Just be careful when she wakes up that she doesn't blurt things out like Monster did in front of his mum and step dad. You'll have to ask him about that one.
This has to be explained, it sounds interesting
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Steve X16XE
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quote: Originally posted by Graham88
quote: Originally posted by Steve X16XE
Just be careful when she wakes up that she doesn't blurt things out like Monster did in front of his mum and step dad. You'll have to ask him about that one.
This has to be explained, it sounds interesting
I'll give Monster the heads up about this one. He was speaking directly to Charly his GF at the time.... I'll let you work the rest out
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I remember reading about this when it happened. Good to see she's improved mate. Much respect for you, she'l know you're there everytime you visit
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J da Silva
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Remain positive young man, top marks for being there for her, she'll need you alot more when she awakes though stan, just be ready as I'm sure you already know.
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Adam-D
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i cant even begin to imagine how hard it is.
stick in the buddy
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VegasPhil
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Hang in there buddy . Inspirational story.
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