Lynny
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I'm 24, he's 25. Didn't want to come across as the desperate type. Fuck it, another drink or 2 and I'll text!
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Lynny
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Originally posted by _Allan_
What DVD did you watch?
Watched Michael McIntyre then Dumb and dumber 
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Dom
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What DVD did you watch?
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AlunJ
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Let us know how you get on, good luck 
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Ian
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What desperate type? Being the first isn't desperate, its just civil and clear.
Also hinges on what you want, if you want to see him again, tell him that. He's either going to say yes because he wants to, which is sound, or say yes because he feels the need to be polite and it'll finish soon and at least you'll know, or say no because he's a boy and scared in which case you'll also know.
One outcome you want and the other two which stop you wondering. Win win.
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gtitim
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Did you go to bed naked with him, or put on your frumpiest ' i hate men' pyjamas? The signals you gave him could have been read in different ways. Just phone him.
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Lynny
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Or he could just not reply then I'd know but feel awkward when I see him
I went to bed wearing black French knickers and bra 
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Ian
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I'd be more awkward not knowing.
Or base it on guesswork and forget it happened, but I get the feeling you want to know.
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Russ
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maybe he was trying to show that he didnt just want you for sex and was being respectful.
or he is a raging hom?
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Matt L
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quote:
Originally posted by Lynny
I went to bed wearing black French knickers and bra
pics
as said could just be nervous, just ask whats the worst that can happen  ... then again just asking to go out for a drink could also still be taken as just being friends so you would have say something other than that so he knows whatyou want kinda thing.
also z @ JJ
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Lynny
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Text sent :/
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AlunJ
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Jake
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Originally posted by Lynny
Right, blokes perspective. Used to work together about 4 years ago, got on well then, both changed jobs but stayed in touch over the years (just Facebook etc), then find yourselves working together again elsewhere out of the blue. You go to hers one night for a drink and a movie, only have a couple bottles of wine so both stay sober. Neither have hinted it's anything more than friends. You hold her hand when sat on the sofa, then, due to having been drinking and can't drive, she asks you if you want to spend the night. Get in to bed, you cuddle into her, you kiss her, she kisses you back. Neither make any other moves, but you spend the whole night cuddled into her and running your hands over her body. Next day you leave. Then just don't contact her at all. See her at work 2 days later, and talk as if you would any other time. 4 days on, still no contact.
Now as a bloke, would you have contacted by now, just not interested, be waiting for her to contact you? I feel 16 again he's not the type of bloke that would have come over expecting to get his end away etc.
I want to contact him and ask him if he fancies going for a drink, but don't want to come across desperate etc
if it was me there would be precum all over the bed if that happened but i would have contacted. probably seeing if you will contact him or he's a mong
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Ian
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He might just like hugs.
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Scotty C
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Relations at work... Well...
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Matt L
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Originally posted by Lynny
Text sent :/
iv not recieved the pics 
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Jake
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the last thing i would do is send a text, wait and see what happens
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Ian
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Actually you still work together, I take it all back, run a million miles it's a world of pain.
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Lynny
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quote:
Originally posted by Scotty C
Relations at work... Well...
To be fair, he works in a hotel, I work on an equestrian centre, there's just on the same site. I only see him if I'm on the yard when hes in the car park, or if I go for a meal/drink
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Aaron
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Whatever you do.....don't text him...
...oh....
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N3CRO
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quote:
Originally posted by Lynny
I went to bed wearing black French knickers and bra
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Lynny
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quote:
Originally posted by TheNobleOne
quote:
Originally posted by Lynny
I went to bed wearing black French knickers and bra
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N3CRO
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quote:
Originally posted by Lynny
quote:
Originally posted by TheNobleOne
quote:
Originally posted by Lynny
I went to bed wearing black French knickers and bra
What? That sounds good to me
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bullock106xsi
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quote:
Originally posted by TheNobleOne
quote:
Originally posted by Lynny
I went to bed wearing black French knickers and bra
fuckin definately
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N3CRO
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quote:
Originally posted by bullock106xsi
quote:
Originally posted by TheNobleOne
quote:
Originally posted by Lynny
I went to bed wearing black French knickers and bra
fuckin definately
Too right!
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