Kerry
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What's not appealing about "fucking hard man" 
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AlunJ
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I didn't mean a hard man isn't attractive, I mean the ones that are complete retards, no hopers who treat women like shit
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Russ
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Ever heard the saying, nice guys finish last, Alun
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AlunJ
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Yep
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SetH
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2 of my friends are self confessed bad boy lovers and they admit they cant break the vicious circle and will keep going back and back.
What is quite sad is that they will try a relationship with a nice guy and then get tempted by a bad boy a couple of months down the line and dump the nice dude.
This is not just some opinion of mine, ive seen this shit OVER and OVER.
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Eck
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I've not got the greatest job in the world, I have a chavved up yellow buzzbox and I dress like a tink... Yet I'm happy? Am I the exception or a deluded fool?
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Jake
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what pisses me off is this all too common occourance
"whinge...where are all the nice guys there arent any left sad face"
IN THE FRIENDS ZONE WHERE YOU FUCKING LEFT THEM YOU SLUT
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SetH
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What jake said
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Eck
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I'd really like to hug both of you oversized gentlemen.
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mwg
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quote:
Originally posted by Jake
what pisses me off is this all too common occourance
"whinge...where are all the nice guys there arent any left sad face"
IN THE FRIENDS ZONE WHERE YOU FUCKING LEFT THEM YOU SLUT
 
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Lawrah
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A list?? what?
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Ian
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quote:
Originally posted by SetH
they're not sleeping with you, they're sleeping with a carefully calculated set of venal choices
Is the person not the sum total of all their attributes though?
ie. whether you say you want the person or you have a list of things you want to see, you're still making sure that everything they do is compatible with everything that you want.
Edit - I also think there's a bit more to that quote. If its a venal choice, it's one motivated by an ulterior motive. So woman look for men who fake all the good bits? Of course they do. I've never faked a single part of my being and I've seen many people get massively turned off by it. Its not an unknown thing that you need act to pull.
[Edited on 04-03-2012 by Ian]
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Jules S
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quote:
Originally posted by SetH
2 of my friends are self confessed bad boy lovers and they admit they cant break the vicious circle and will keep going back and back.
What is quite sad is that they will try a relationship with a nice guy and then get tempted by a bad boy a couple of months down the line and dump the nice dude.
This is not just some opinion of mine, ive seen this shit OVER and OVER.
In simplistic terms
All of the women I've known, which must be age 0 to nigh on 100 crave one thing.
Safety
You might call that security over safety, but it's all the same.
They want to feel the same warm feeling that their daddy gave them when they were a child. Harping back to when life was all rosy playing with dolls without a care in the world.
So grab a bad boy and they feel safe...in reality they get a bad boy and treated like shit
I've had too much grief today. Fucking women. There really REALLY is no pleasing them sometimes 
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Lawrah
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My daddy gave me know happy warm feeling. Where does that leave me ?
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Lawrah
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Im very confussed.. I dont think ive ever compiled a list for my other halfs..I like someone and thats that. I couldnt give a fuck what they do. These woman must be bonkers to judge people that way.
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Ian
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I think the insinuation is that it also happens subconsciously.
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Lawrah
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Does it? ive not done very well in that case
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Ian
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Could you make a list if you needed to? That would be an indication that you're doing it.
I absolutely do, just ignore a lot of it in the interest of impetuousness. If I stuck to it too much I'd just be pining after compromised exes.
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Jules S
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quote:
Originally posted by Lawrah
My daddy gave me know happy warm feeling. Where does that leave me ?
In a bad place.
If you can get past that issue
A good place.
Life is far too short. The older you get the more you appreciate it.
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Lawrah
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I dont think its just females, I think perhaps both sexes hit an age where they wants whats going to be right for the future.. ie men want women who are going to be good wifes, or make a good mother. it works both ways, its not about lists its about protecting ourselfs for the future.
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Lawrah
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quote:
Originally posted by Jules S
quote:
Originally posted by Lawrah
My daddy gave me know happy warm feeling. Where does that leave me ?
In a bad place.
If you can get past that issue
A good place.
Life is far too short. The older you get the more you appreciate it.
Because my father was never there for my childhood leaves me in a bad place? I think its done me a favour in not finding a man at all like my father.
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silvercorsabee
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quote:
Originally posted by Lawrah
Im very confussed.. I dont think ive ever compiled a list for my other halfs..I like someone and thats that. I couldnt give a fuck what they do. These woman must be bonkers to judge people that way.
wow, gorgous with an attitude like that!:O marry me!?
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Lawrah
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quote:
Originally posted by silvercorsabee
quote:
Originally posted by Lawrah
Im very confussed.. I dont think ive ever compiled a list for my other halfs..I like someone and thats that. I couldnt give a fuck what they do. These woman must be bonkers to judge people that way.
wow, gorgous with an attitude like that!:O marry me!?
no sorry, you are from Aberdeen and drive a corsa . Thats not on my list.
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silvercorsabee
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quote:
Originally posted by Lawrah
quote:
Originally posted by silvercorsabee
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Originally posted by Lawrah
Im very confussed.. I dont think ive ever compiled a list for my other halfs..I like someone and thats that. I couldnt give a fuck what they do. These woman must be bonkers to judge people that way.
wow, gorgous with an attitude like that!:O marry me!?
no sorry, you are from Aberdeen and drive a corsa . Thats not on my list.
 
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Ian
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You don't have a list at all do you
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