Ben J
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According to CS, cheating on your gf/wife is the worst sin ever, and is worse than raping kids.
Split with you gf first IMO.
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Russ
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Ben the hairdresser is from the mighty Essex
Yes, yes he is.
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Russ
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i'd have bought a ps4
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ed
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Grow a pair of bollocks and break things off with your current partner. Why bother fucking around with things if you're unhappy.
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Russ
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set your facebook to 'its complicated' imo
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Brett
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Originally posted by Russ
set your facebook to 'its complicated' imo
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johnny86
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set your facebook to 'its complicated' imo
That got deleted
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FlaFFy_91
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Originally posted by Ben J
According to CS, cheating on your gf/wife is the worst sin ever, and is worse than raping kids.
Split with you gf first IMO.
I'd say it's on par...
Why bother cheating on her? Why not just dump her? I really don't see the point in cheating on someone.
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SVM 286
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Originally posted by johnny86
Right crack goes would you cheat?
The reason I ask is because I am more than likely to.
Things been shit at home last few months always arguing not talking she's always got the hump with me for some reason or another. I have to ask for a cuddle and a kiss, had sex twice in 4 months I do love her but I'm thinking fuck this.
Working in Chelsea at the minute and a hairdresser has soon me a bit of attention so took her for coffee yesterday and got on great. I explained her the situation and she said decide what I wanna do and we could see how we get on.
I have tried with my partner even booked Disneyland for Xmas an dont even wanna go.
Do I throw this away to have a chance at being happy?
I think you already know the answer, don't you John?
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SVM 286
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Originally posted by johnny86
I always treat her every Friday when I get paid and have to basically beg for attention. I love her and I love her son but I've had enough.
This for me has sealed the deal.
You took on a woman with another man's child. Plus you don't get on any more.
Question answered I think Chief.
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SVM 286
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I meant leave btw, not be adulterous. Just to clarify.
And what work are you doing in Chelsea btw? 
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Haimsey
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If i did. One thing i learnt from a friend was if you book a hotel 100 miles away, take a different girl and pump the fuck out of her, whilst saying its 'nights apart'......dont leave a selfridges receipt in your wallet from hotel location for the gf to find and question fail.
Marcy Marc 
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SVM 286
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Priceless.
That said, what the hell is she doing, going through his wallet?
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Gaz
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regardless of if you want your current partner or not, cheating on someone isn't nice and if it was the other way round you wouldn't like it.
Finish with the current girl if you don't want it to continue and allow both of your lives to move on in the ways you want it to.
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Haimsey
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Originally posted by SVM 286
Priceless.
That said, what the hell is she doing, going through his wallet?
Women, who knows  Wallets / facebook / phones; its all the same.
Let them look, they do so till they find something they dont like.
Dont let them look, they're convinced youre hiding something.
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SVM 286
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Still seems a bit much though Marcus. Going through a brother's wallet... Just not on.
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Lee_fr200
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Finish with the other half first, don't cheat it's not nice!
Also all women check throughh their fellas things I've never known a woman not to, whether it's phones wallets cars Facebook Internet history etc etc etc
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Russ
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Not all women do lol
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FlaFFy_91
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Originally posted by Lee_fr200
Finish with the other half first, don't cheat it's not nice!
Also all women check throughh their fellas things I've never known a woman not to, whether it's phones wallets cars Facebook Internet history etc etc etc
My woman doesn't look through my shit...
Been with her 3 years. She still doesn't know any of my passwords, PIN number or anything like that. And she doesn't want to or need to know them. Doesn't even know my phone lock code
It's called trust 
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Daniel_Corsa
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Originally posted by Hammer
I'd have pumped the hairdresser and not uttered a peep to anyone.
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Haimsey
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Do you think there's more initial trust in a relationship if your partner thinks you're punching above your weight already though?
Marcy Marc
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Generation
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Originally posted by ed
Grow a pair of bollocks and break things off with your current partner. Why bother fucking around with things if you're unhappy.
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Generation
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IMO, cheating is a cowards way out. Wanting to get caught so you don't have to do the finishing.
If you've been with her for years you at least owe her an explanation and a break-up.
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Ben J
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Originally posted by Haimsey
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Originally posted by SVM 286
Priceless.
That said, what the hell is she doing, going through his wallet?
Women, who knows Wallets / facebook / phones; its all the same.
Let them look, they do so till they find something they dont like.
Dont let them look, they're convinced youre hiding something.
Don't leave your FB account open on your iPod with filthy messages from wench on the side. 
That said I'm so glad I got caught. Stopped me completely ruining mine and everyone I care about's life.
Wouldn't recommend it tho.
Look back now and I was so lucky I was forgiven. It's as if I wasn't me for a while. Early midlife crisis??? I'm a better Dad, husband and person for it.
[Edited on 17-11-2013 by Ben J]
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Root
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Not read the full original post but you should ditch the current gf before moving on, it's only fair.
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