jrsteeve
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I worked there for 3 months, and yeh there are alot of beered up tossers, but u get them where ever u go!
If shes serious in the relationship, she will be faithful. A fair few of the girls out there aren't single, and so they just shun all the beer boys and have a laugh with their mates. Those who do cheat aren't worth the worry.
I'd say trust her, but tell her to be careful and not drink too much.
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Tom J
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where bouts did u wrk jrsteeve? coz i lived out there
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Jason
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i trust her
very serious relationship
i asked her if she did go with any1 while seriously drunk wud u tell me she said yes but no she wudnt do it
i told her how much i wud worry about her and miss her
well not much i can do and its in a years time so our relationship shall be much stronger!
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Lynny
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anyways, what u mean by let her go? do u own her??
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NormSXi
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One idea mate - get a ring on that finger of hers! That should help, but not the right reason to do it though!
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Jason
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quote:
Originally posted by Blode
anyways, what u mean by let her go? do u own her??
i dont own her... by saying let i mean approve of it
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kerzo
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why dont you go with her instead
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Leven Cruise
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Question is tho... whens she's back... how do you know if she'sl cheated or not? 
[Edited on 29-09-2003 by Leven Cruise]
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Jason
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im not alowed 2 *girly holiday*
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Jason
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quote:
Originally posted by Leven Cruise
Question is tho... how do you know if she' ll cheat or not?
iv a feeling she would tell me
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Jason
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+ she said she'd phone everyday
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kerzo
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no i mean why dont you just go seperately....just the two of you
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Ian
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Leven, if you know, you know.
She'll value your approval Jason. This is good 
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Ian
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quote:
Originally posted by Jason
+ she said she'd phone everyday
This is a bad move. Too much to think about if she doesn't. Raw worry if not mistrust.
I'd ask her for the pleasant surprise of a call a couple of times rather than fourteen angry evenings.
[Edited on 29-09-2003 by Ian]
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Jason
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quote:
Originally posted by kerzo
no i mean why dont you just go seperately....just the two of you
she said yea ok but shes still goin on that one...
yea ian since i said yea its ok she's in good mood!
funny thing is she use's this board lol 
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Jason
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quote:
Originally posted by Ian
quote:
Originally posted by Jason
+ she said she'd phone everyday
This is a bad move. Too much to think about if she doesn't. Raw worry if not mistrust.
I'd ask her for the pleasant surprise of a call a couple of times rather than fourteen angry evenings.
[Edited on 29-09-2003 by Ian]
7 evenings!
naw we call each other everyday n stuff so dont see what we shudnt stop it....
much a min is it 2 spain?
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kerzo
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by the way saw your car at lurgan...looks a lot better in the flesh than in the pictures
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Jason
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aww mate she was in a state big time!!!
worst its looked yet
dent in door... black mirror lol
kerzo u prob seen her then?? brona? gd lookin blonde girl?
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Jason
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head frying stuf... iv a head ache now
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-Aliba-
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In all seriousness mate.... i wouldnt agree to it for many reasons:
would you be allowed to go wiv mates???
Do all the girls have boyfriends??? i doubt it!
Peer pressure.
Fact that you will NEVER know what went on.... no matter what stories you hear... NEVER know for sure... live with the possibilities???
Dont get me wrong, i feel my gf is totally head over heels with me and would never cheat on me, (been together for about 3 years or so), however i still wouldnt agree with her going away with mates.... mainly due to me not trusting her whorey mates!!!
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J4LDO
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let her go but dont lick her out for a few weeks when she gets back lol
had to say it mat soz
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Ian
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Aliba - every heard of trust!!? 
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barry_kellett99
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quote:
Originally posted by Jason
i trust her
very serious relationship
i asked her if she did go with any1 while seriously drunk wud u tell me she said yes but no she wudnt do it
i told her how much i wud worry about her and miss her
well not much i can do and its in a years time so our relationship shall be much stronger!
If you trust her whats the worrying about?
My gf just went back to uni in edinburgh and i miss her like mad but i trust her, as if she was going to be up to badness she wouldnt have told me she is dressing up in skool uniform tonight!!!
I love her (but havent told her that yet!) and we have clicked and she is the first woman i have ever trusted.
If you trust your woman your set
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Ben
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quote:
Originally posted by troubled_corsa
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Originally posted by Korsa-Kid
if she goes out there and dosnt cheat u know she is the one if she does cheat u know she isnt
but how do u know if shes cheated or not?
u get aids probibly
and look , i wud just let her go , just tell her straight b4 "look i have no problem with u goin, and i dont wanna say this but i know theres alot of temptation over there , if u do cheat on me ,its over"
not too hard and to the point!
and if she does cheat then its over , u cant keep her locked up 4eva m8- unfortunately 
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Cosmo
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I'd let my gf go with her mates, if she cheats she cheats. If she is the kind of girl who is going to cheat it doesnt matter if she is on holiday or around your local town it'll still happen!
And if it does just shag her best mate and call it even! Or better yet use it to your advantage and get her best mate involved with her 
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