1600power
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tbh m8 in nearly every message u've posted u've said that u love her!!!
Now that says alot about the way u feel for this girl, even though u broke up with her and everything u still have strong feelings for her......by the sounds of it u never meant to finish it with her properly in the firstplace (and im sure u can honestly say thats the truth!)
Its a proper bitch that she ended up sleeping with sum1else cuz if she hadnt u wud b super happy again but this niggling doubt is really gonna b a mind fuck if ur not careful 
Just try getting close with her again, take her out for a meal, shopping, a walk or summut just try to get it out of ur system and ur relationship back on track.....
People breakup and get back together its a fact of life......take care of yourself and each other 
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chris_uk
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cheers m8!
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Tom
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Originally posted by Tim
Don't cut yourself up about it -- think about the facts... he was more than likely completely crap as it was the first time he'd slept with her and doesn't know all her 'buttons' like you do... 
This makes me feel better when my ex's first start going with someone else
Ego!
All you can do mate is try to make it work and really try not to hold her actions with this lad against her, or it'll never work!
Good advice that
Also i'd say put a bit of the blame on her too mate, he wasn't doing it on his own 
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Fad
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there are two ways of looking at it mate
maybe now she'll realise how important you are to her and that she made a huge mistake and the fact she told you shows that she wants to make a fresh start, you just gta make sure she makes it up to you and she does all the running around for now till you forgive her
i kinda fell oit my other half recently and she is stickig by her work to try and make it work so there is faith still mate 
on the other hand i am goin to contradict myself and say after i got back with someone it does play on your mind what they did and it will eat you away for a while and if you dont think your strong enough to cope with that quit while your ahead as over time stress marks will start to show and when you argue the past will be dragged up which no one likes .
sorry if that aint much help but its one of them decisions you got to make no one elses.
To me tho mate u seem pretty loved up with the lass and if u dont try u may ask your self in 6 months time what if it could of worked?
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Tom
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well only read half of tims post
I'd say leave it a few weeks as was planned and see how u Both feel then
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Mad Moe
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I'd just make her make loads of effort and make her feel proper guilty for what she's done while you're making nice adult videos of you fucking various women. Then when you think she's suffered enough give her the tape and tell her to fuck off.
Just my opinion mind you
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chris_uk
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yea i think thats wat im gunna do... ill keep u all posted.. to those who are interested..
BTW Fad that must have taken u a while to write.. cheers
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Fad
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Originally posted by chris_uk
yea i think thats wat im gunna do... ill keep u all posted.. to those who are interested..
BTW Fad that must have taken u a while to write.. cheers
wasnt too bad mate i been there got the t shirt so i know how u feel fella keep us posted
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chris_uk
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will do my best..
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chris_uk
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o and one other thing.. to prove to me that she was sorry and that she still loved me i got to do her dry 
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Fad
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o and one other thing.. to prove to me that she was sorry and that she still loved me i got to do her dry
PVS was legendery at least one good thing came out of it
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chris_uk
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i know at least ive got my brown wings
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sassyminx
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ouch 
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chris_uk
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Originally posted by sassyminx
ouch
suppose she loves me !!
her face was like but soon turned into  and then progressed slowly to 
twas good....
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michelle
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quote:
Originally posted by 1600power
tbh m8 in nearly every message u've posted u've said that u love her!!!
Now that says alot about the way u feel for this girl, even though u broke up with her and everything u still have strong feelings for her......by the sounds of it u never meant to finish it with her properly in the firstplace (and im sure u can honestly say thats the truth!)
Its a proper bitch that she ended up sleeping with sum1else cuz if she hadnt u wud b super happy again but this niggling doubt is really gonna b a mind fuck if ur not careful
Just try getting close with her again, take her out for a meal, shopping, a walk or summut just try to get it out of ur system and ur relationship back on track.....
People breakup and get back together its a fact of life......take care of yourself and each other
It's Jerry Springer himself
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sassyminx
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just gotta be careful 
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chris_uk
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Originally posted by sassyminx
just gotta be careful
i am going to be..
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rstrich
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I'd be careful here mate, if you walked out on her and wouldn't sort it out because of your stubborness, then you're partially to blame for this too, we all know what being dumped is like, and I know I at least go on rebounds in a big way, so she may have being trying to just make you jealous, but in the process, made herself feel bad, at least if nothing else, you know she won't cheat on you, if she's had the decency to tell you this (which can't be an easy thing considering she's trying to make things work) at the end of the day mate, it's your call, no-one else's we can all say yeah go for it, or no don't, but in reality it's not going to make any major impact on your decision.
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chris_uk
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i think im gunna see how it goes and forget the past.. were gunna start fresh..
i slept with her for the first time sat nite (over 6 days ) and it felt like the first time again... so special!
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rstrich
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good on ya mate, word of warning, you've agreed to this you kjnow the score, don't drag it up in any future arguments fella (believe me you'll regret, experience talking lol!!)
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bree
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chris u 2 love each other so its good u givin her another chance  your heart is good
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chris_uk
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Originally posted by rstrich
good on ya mate, word of warning, you've agreed to this you kjnow the score, don't drag it up in any future arguments fella (believe me you'll regret, experience talking lol!!)
ive told her im gunna forget it.. i wont bring it up again..
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Ben
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why are you asking us what to do , u know what ur gonna do and obviously you dont listen to advice anyway.
and u know that lad that wa knobbing her
well..................
it was me
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Paul
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She's pregnant
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koolkorsa
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if i found out my x had shagged someone i would of gone nuts. I think its just me but i get ridiculously jealous, she pulled someone the other day and all i wanted to do was hit him. had to be dragged away. its the worst feeling in the world - i know i should let go but its so hard.
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