Nismo
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there insecure as they dont trust themselves let alone there other half
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--Dave--
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in that case Nismo my ex will have cheated on me approximately 5,347 times.
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Nismo
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Kerry
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I remember the days of having a bf and mobile phones wernt around
we got on much better
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Nismo
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and the days when MSN was not around
infact the Net in full , those days must have been easy on relationships
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Kerry
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yes i used to call for my bf! and if he wasnt in then i didnt have a go for not calling me or not answering the phone
and when they said where they had been you beleived them
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--Dave--
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MSN is fcuking evil
webcams also....
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Kerry
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like nismo said its the whole internet!
back in the day eh....
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Dione J
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quote: Originally posted by d_jay50
Kerry you just need to find a real man, so you can build back up the trust in us again
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Kerry
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quote: Originally posted by d_jay50
Kerry you just need to find a real man, so you can build back up the trust in us again
i dont need to find anything
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Dione J
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so your going celbate then?
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Kerry
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i dont want to talk about my personal life thank you!
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Carl
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i read my lasses all the time, i like being nosey.
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Tom
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quote: Originally posted by Kerry
yes i used to call for my bf! and if he wasnt in then i didnt have a go for not calling me or not answering the phone
and when they said where they had been you beleived them
soo much easier, soooo much easier
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Butler
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Its the principle. I used to get pissed off if my ex did it, theres no need. If you trust your boyfriend you shouldnt be so insecure you need to reassure yourself.
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Brett
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quote: Originally posted by --Dave--
imo if you feel the need to look at your partner's phone then as someone said you are somewhat insecure and obviously the trust isn't there.
lol, if you put all your trust in someone you're setting yourself up for a big fall IMO. Always expect the worst and you'll never be disappointed
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--Dave--
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I agree with that to a certain extent, though you you still have to maintain an optiimistic view on life.
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Ben G
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i look at my girlfriends from time to time as she looks at mine and takes numbers of ex girlfriends from my phone and rings them and texts them.
she is of weirdo
i do it to her because she texts boys and then deletes the texts
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Kerry
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how can you live like that
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--Dave--
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what i was thinking Kerry
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Carl
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quote: Originally posted by loafofbrett
quote: Originally posted by --Dave--
imo if you feel the need to look at your partner's phone then as someone said you are somewhat insecure and obviously the trust isn't there.
lol, if you put all your trust in someone you're setting yourself up for a big fall IMO. Always expect the worst and you'll never be disappointed
i kind of have the same philosophy, i just take everyday as it comes. 2 close mates have been shafted out of the blue by there then girlfriends.
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Ben G
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quote: Originally posted by Kerry
how can you live like that
i can't. but i get ''rewards'' from her
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--Dave--
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that makes it alright then good to know you're with her for the right reasons....
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Kellye
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quote: Originally posted by AdZ9
yeh Dave it was me, and its true. The people who accuse you of cheating, or check up on you 24/7 are the ones cheating themselves and because of that they think its happening to them, thing is they never get over it now. After being cheated on my trust dropped alot, gonna take a while to trust the next girl i meet.
Just be straight about the situation if you find someone who u like and get on with then you will then find out what she is really like when you tell her your situation, you cant not say anything as this wont be fair on the girl if you get me.
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Ben G
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lol it's not just like that. i enjoy her company most of the time when phones are off, computers aren't anywhere in sight and it's just me and her
the internet is evil
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