BeetleGav
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Ask Ben G............. 
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Ben G
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Fucking
Rear view mirrors ripped off and windscreens cracked
If I could control my hulk like temper, I reckon i'd make a great superhero 
[Edited on 08-09-2013 by Ben G]
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IvIarkgraham
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Sorry Ben had to be done! 
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SVM 286
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taylorboosh
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quote:
Originally posted by taylorboosh
Also pics?
From page 2
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johnny86
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quote:
Originally posted by IvIarkgraham
Sorry Ben had to be done!
Come on what's the story sound amusing
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taylorboosh
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She locked him in the car, whilst there he noticed in the rear view his eyebrows were misshaped so smashed it off...
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deano87
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Naaa, she's not into you mate. It's not much of a relationship imho.
Leave.
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K2 GTi
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First of all I'd be asking where the hell she was till 5am, and next I'd be asking why she wasnt answering her phone , then I'd ask why the fuck she said she was about to leave and then stayed out for hours after with no explanation.
If it was my missus she'd be gone
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Christopher
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Loving all these mugging you replies! I have had similar experiences mate! Funking annoying!
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Colin
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Stick your big boy pants on and kick her in the nanny! Then leave!
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Ian
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quote:
Originally posted by richc
'Am i not allowed to go out'
The quick answer is no, she has two children and a partner who is expecting her at 11pm.
Trust comment worries me - why is it a trust thing? The whole relationship should have trust, not just one night where she wants to make a point.
Either the house party is so boss she needs to neglect her partner and children to be there - which I don't believe.
Or its a shit party but she prefers the company of the people there to you - which has mileage but brings in to question whether she actually values you as a partner. Or just has a great babysitter on hand.
Or its a shit or non-existent party and she's playing away.
Ignoring you is also not on. Do think that's not particularly games to be sending her texts every hour, just demonstrates to her that you're still there waiting like a mug for when she gets back. Although if you've got to address that and games a bird, you do question whether you actually have a sound bird on your hands or whether you need to get some psychology on the go just to get what you want. Sound birds are normally better long term.
Sounds like she knows she can behave as she wants and it won't affect her detrimentally, so she carries on. Storming out and going to Maccys is nothing really, you'll be back doing it again next week.
Definitely fixable but unless you have ninja mindfuck skills you're not going to change a thing.
Normally easier to leave.
[Edited on 09-09-2013 by Ian]
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richc
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Thanks for the constructive advise people. I just wanted to know it wasn't me being unreasonable because I am pretty laid back about stuff like this usually.
Well I played her at her own game. Nipped out for a couple of beers Saturday dinner and didn't turn up.
She got two bus' and walked 3 miles to come and find me (I went to the mothers house where no one was in).
She changed her attitude, begged it, made her cry and hopefully she will change tune. Im not happy about it still, but she wants me to give her a final chance.
Im fairly reasonable like that, but lets just see. Ive got alot of time and money invested in this, so its not easy to 100% walk away when your life/belongings are there and I would have to move back into a box room at my parents :/
She has started a uni course today so lets see if she actually focuses her mind on that instead of being a twat. Seems alcohol is her down fall. She says she will give it up because a large majority of the problems we have ever had have boiled down to alcohol somewhere along the line.
To be continued.....
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taylorboosh
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Lol uni will only fuel the fire surely
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Gary
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quote:
Originally posted by taylorboosh
Lol uni will only fuel the fire surely
Was just about to say this. Shes off to uni with a load of wild 18-21 year olds who are out all the time.
Yeah, right idea there! 
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Steve
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Can we have some fucking pix plz
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mwg
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Get rid
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SVM 286
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Going to university.
Oh shit.
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corsa-torque
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C*nt punt...
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strick206
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How much money are you in this for?
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richc
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quote:
Originally posted by Gary
quote:
Originally posted by taylorboosh
Lol uni will only fuel the fire surely
Was just about to say this. Shes off to uni with a load of wild 18-21 year olds who are out all the time.
Yeah, right idea there!
Its a 'mature' course aparantly. Lots of people in there 40's.
Like I say, we shall see.
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1986
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Not read any replies but why not go for the Oscar Pistorious route ?
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Gary
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quote:
Originally posted by richc
Its a 'mature' course aparantly. Lots of people in there 40's.
You really just need to stop listening to what this woman says tbh and stop being so nice.
Let her goto work one day then shift all your shit out. Fair dos you have to live at your parents for a bit which will be shit but it wont be as shit as having to deal with her!
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Ian
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The availability of wild 18 year olds shouldn't decide whether or not you have a problem.
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Gary
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quote:
Originally posted by Ian
The availability of wild 18 year olds shouldn't decide whether or not you have a problem.
The point is that she's already one for going out on the lash all night so when her new 'friends' are doing it all the time too shes going to get even worse!
My Mrs was a bit of a pain when she was at uni so i can see what rich's will be like
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