Lynny
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right, a mate of mine has been seeing her lad for a bit now, and dont get me wrong i really like him, really nice lad etc but it seems hes always there and i cant have any time just with my mate. like iv asked her to go shopping, drinking etc a couple of times this week and both times she's said yeah and she'll bring her lad, even when i say its lasses night out etc. i knwo that if i have a word with her she'll get offended and she'll say somethign to her lad and he'll hate me but i REALLY dont wana fall out with either of them  jst feels like im losing a friend! what can i do?
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stubbsy05
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Difficult one. Me and my mates all have an understanding and we're blokes I suppose.
Doesn't her lad have stuff to do withj his mates, your mate would be free then?
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Lynny
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Originally posted by Alex.S
Difficult one. Me and my mates all have an understanding and we're blokes I suppose.
Doesn't her lad have stuff to do withj his mates, your mate would be free then?
he rarely sees hsi mates, or if he does then my mate goes to. they are together every day and every night and although i have no problem with him, i really jst want some time with my mate
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SetH
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That is a proper dilemma, to be blunt and to the point if you agree that its a ladyess night out and she brings her lad then shes taking the p1ss basically, simple.
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Lynny
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Originally posted by SetH
That is a proper dilemma, to be blunt and to the point if you agree that its a ladyess night out and she brings her lad then shes taking the p1ss basically, simple.
tried, i says to ger we'll have a lasses day out shopping as i needed new clothes for sunday night, she brought her lad, i dont feel that comfortable looking for clothes etc with someone elses boyfriend, its bad enough dragging ur own round the shops! specially since we normally go into shops liek la senza etc, lingerie shops, its quite awkward
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Tom
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Very sad that, the lad needs to get a grip, he may be possesive tho 
Just tell her straight up, u aint being funny but it'd be nice to see her sumtimes for a proper girly chat etc she'll get the sketch then 
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Lynny
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i cant tell her, she'll take it the wrong way
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TNM
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Originally posted by Lynny
right, a mate of mine has been seeing her lad for a bit now, and dont get me wrong i really like him, really nice lad etc but it seems hes always there and i cant have any time just with my mate. like iv asked her to go shopping, drinking etc a couple of times this week and both times she's said yeah and she'll bring her lad, even when i say its lasses night out etc. i knwo that if i have a word with her she'll get offended and she'll say somethign to her lad and he'll hate me but i REALLY dont wana fall out with either of them jst feels like im losing a friend! what can i do?
suggest a three sum!
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Woollard
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Dont mean to be blunt be if you aint guna tell her then there's fuck all you can do about it, stop being a pussy and tell her. If she's your mate she will find the fact that you want to be with her and just her, a compliment.
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Mad Moe
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Tell them both at the same time to get a grip, just a suggestion.
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