Colin
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Originally posted by JadeM
Taking a break doesn't necessarily mean its the end!!
All relationships have their ups and downs. It sounds like you've got into a rut (not doing stuff as a couple etc anymore) which can so easily happen, and some time apart might do you both the world of good!! Gives both of you time alone to work out what's been going wrong and what you both really want.
It looks like your both being sensible about it, you've sat down and discussed it and hopefully taken on board whats been going wrong? I don't know why so many folk on here are ripping into her - she's been honest and admitted she's not sure how she feels anymore, so taking that into account what else is she supposed to do? Just string him along thinking everything is hunky dory? 
Hope everything works out ok for you both 
I'll drink to that 
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C2RL R
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Registered: 28th Mar 02
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i used to agree with the majority in here about it not working out if you get back together but i don't agree anymore. my best mates split up about 5 years ago then got back together and they are now better than ever. if you are right for each other then you'll get back together, if not then you can't stay upset about it because it's the best thing for you both.
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Robbo
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Registered: 6th Aug 02
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AMEN CARL 
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C2RL R
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feel the love brother
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Butler
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Originally posted by stubbsy05
Thanks Jade
Wheres my thanks 
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Gary
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Originally posted by Aaron
If i can give you any advice.....its "dont ever go back"
Hard times. Keep yourself busy.
Indeed. Forwards! Never backwards!
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Ste
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Registered: 5th Mar 03
Location: Taif, Saudi Arabia
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If you ever feel like you need that 'girlfriend feeling' just get a load of shopping bags and stand outside Topshop for half an hour, constantly looking at your watch and occasionaly peering inside. Everyone will think you have a bird!
I would rather lose by a mile because i built my own car, than win by an inch because someone else built it for me.
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Carl
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Originally posted by Ste W
If you ever feel like you need that 'girlfriend feeling' just get a load of shopping bags and stand outside Topshop for half an hour, constantly looking at your watch and occasionaly peering inside. Everyone will think you have a bird!
Nothing worse, that would be one of the positives of getting rid of a women imo. If topshop put seats and xboxes outside womens changing rooms their profits would sky rocket.
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Leighton
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Registered: 21st Feb 01
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Originally posted by Ste W
If you ever feel like you need that 'girlfriend feeling' just get a load of shopping bags and stand outside Topshop for half an hour, constantly looking at your watch and occasionaly peering inside. Everyone will think you have a bird!
 wont even bother telling you about my week as well then
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BigSte
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Location: Sheffield
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me and the missus split up after about 4 years for about a month..... was really strange at the time. We got back together, and now approaching 10 years this July!!!
Oh yeh, we also got married in that time and had 2 kids
You never know what will happen, if it's meant to be it's meant to be. Just keep thinking this
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Edd
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mate she's being ploughed as we type
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corsa - gus
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If its meant to be its meant to be, I know one of my mates mum and dads went out for years when they were younger, they split up and both married other people which didn't work out, they got back together and have been married going on 25 years.
At the end of the day as people say, love conquers all
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Jay
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Registered: 26th Sep 04
Location: Liverpool
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Originally posted by Edd
mate she's being ploughed as we type
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ajscorsa
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Originally posted by Edd
mate she's being ploughed as we type
harsh
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taylorboosh
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Originally posted by JayM
quote:
Originally posted by Edd
mate she's being ploughed as we type
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Robbo
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Originally posted by Edd
mate she's being ploughed as we type
No need double d 
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kz
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Registered: 9th Aug 02
Location: Southend, Essex Drives: Mini Cooper S
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Originally posted by BigSteYou never know what will happen, if it's meant to be it's meant to be. Just keep thinking this
Sorry, but... worst advice ever imo. Me and the missus split last month and the hope drove me insane, it's only these last two weeks or so where I've finally accepted that we're over and it's gradually, very slowly... starting to get better. HOPE = FAIL.
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