pow
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Thats fucking horrendus!
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Tommy L
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Yes John, i really do. Which isn't a nice thing to say about a sibling but she keeps on doing it and she has no remorse for her actions. She is going to learn this time.
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pow
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Nice one tomtom 
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Ellis
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quote:
Originally posted by corsa_tomtom
I'm more than miffed ellis
I can only imagine 
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Tommy L
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On the phone to halifax now. Barclays was useless. Have to wait till tomoro as I couldnt remember my mothers maiden name 
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will_doyle
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Why you going to the Police about your sister?
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John
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Not read the thread then doyley?
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Whittie
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I wouldn't report her to the police, it's a bit OTT.
Invest in a safe, go into her bedroom and pawn items to get your money back.
If it continues after than then report her.
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Twiggy
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smack her bottom??
On a web cam! 
Seriously get her done for fraud as you said she has done it before she needs to be taught a propper lesson as clearly not learnt lesson prior...
MBNA need the card holder to press charges before the debts written off...
[Edited on 24-07-2009 by Twiggy]
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willay
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@ twiggy
I added your sister to facebook but she didnt accept.
If you ring the fraud department they will follow it up with police action I think as they will get IP addreses and shit from people she has ordered off.
I like Whittie's idea TBH because the whole ringing the fraud department could fuck things up at home, but then again if you steal some of her shit to cash then she might get you back some how.
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Ian W
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Sounds like my brother, stole money from me, used my credit card and now im on the national ID theft register cos of him.
House is like fort knox, only rooms without locks are the kitchen and bathrooms.
He used my credit card about 4 years ago, I thought about phoning the police but didn't bother, two years later he was up in court for major credit card theft. Kinda wish I had reported him earlier to scare him.
Good luck mate, only time we stopped losing money is when he finally moved out - he got told to give his house key back and he's not allowed in un supervised now.
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will_doyle
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quote:
Originally posted by John
Not read the thread then doyley?
I meant it as thought its abit harsh
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Tommy L
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It may seem a bit harsh and over the top but she has repeatedly done things like this and doesn't give a shit as she knows she will get away with it. She knows mum and dad will bail her out of her debts and that they will reimburse me the money she has stole from me, cos she has no job.
Mum is asking me to not go through with it but i'm undecided yet. I have til sunday morning to make a decision.
It's hard on my mum as she is a legal advisor/barrister and deals with criminals everyday. She didn't bring my sister up to be just like them. I just think she needs to learn her lesson
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LukeS
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Not harsh at all. Teach her a lesson early so she doesn't get in bigger trouble when she's older.
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Graham88
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Get a CS gang bang organised to bukkake on her face, that'll teach her.
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loubielou
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No point stealing stuff from her cos then it makes you as bad as she is.
Maybe she needs to be threatened with police action to make her realise cos your mum and dad are way too soft. She's just gonna keep doing it cos she knows she can get away with it.
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Cosmo
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Id discuss it with both your parents and your sister before reporting it to the police.
She'd be seriously fucked if you went to them, and I think it would be taken out of your hands if action was to be taken (credit card/bank would probably be the ones pressing fraud charges).
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Graham88
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Plus doesn't the whole address get blackflagged if somebody in the household gets a black mark against them or something?
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DannyB
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Sister or not, the police would be getting told. Do you think she even thought, when she was stealing YOUR money that she shouldn't do it because you're family. No.
Teach her a lesson.
[Edited on 25-07-2009 by DannyB]
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Sam
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OMG do people on this website need to ask Internet strangers for advice on how to run their bloody lives these days now?
Phone your bank/credit card companies, cancel the cards and get new ones sent.
Then, I would suggest you get your parents and sister in the same room and basically tell your parents what she has been doing - tell them if they don't sort their daughter out the next time you will be going to the police - and obviously tell your sister to pay the money back immediately.
I will also add (seeing as you asked a load of strangers on the Internet how to deal this) that your parents must be a couple of pushovers if they just let her get away with this shit.
It's disrespectful, fraudulent, embarrasing and shameful - I would get a bloody hiding if I ever attempted to pull a stunt like this on a family member!
I feel sorry and embarrased for you TBH.
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