Karnage Corsa
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Basically I was seeing my ex girlfriend for 6 months but we lived 100 miles apart which made life annoying at times and I suppose I just fell out of love, I have to admit I really miss her but I have stayed with the idea that it just wont work. N e way I have been seeing someone else I really like her we get on but I hardly see her through me and her working different times been seeing her a while and she is really good looking and I think it may go further but heres the problem ? My ex has been ringing me a lot lately and I have to admit I like talking to her she has asked me if I want to go to Devon for a week to a cottege that her Dad owns so do I go or what ? I can get the time off but I am really confused as to what to do but I have to tell her this week if I am going. Any advice is appreciated and please dont put bone them both cos it never works out. Cheers Paul...
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Andy4B
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Scratch that. It wasn't helpful.
[Edited on 16-06-2003 by Andy4B]
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Corsa_Jam
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which one do u prefer and c a future with if thats wot you want, ive bin in the same situation!!! 
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Andy4B
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Nobody can decide for you. It's one of those situations where you have to decide for yourself. There is no point in asking someone elses opinion.
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Karnage Corsa
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its sort of an unrealistic question that mate cos I could probably c a future with both but my ex the most cos I was with her for 6 months I think if I was to say if they both lived here then my ex but thats just the problem isnt it they dont I fu@king hate life sometimes cheers anyway mate
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Karnage Corsa
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just wondering if there was n e 1 out there thats ever been in the same situation mate thats all I can ask me mates but they are all in long term reletionships so they cant say either
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Marc
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bone them both
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Karnage Corsa
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thanks mate id never thought of that 1 
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Marc
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well u did ask for that...
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kinkycorsa
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i reckon you should think about which you get on best with u say the second 1 is rly fit > but tht doesnt necessarily mean u get on well. It depends if u want a trophy gf or sum1 to share your life with i guess and enjoy spending time with. At the end of the day if you want something or someone bad enuff you would do anything..even if it met moving to be closer or chging hours...so look at who you feel more for and think about exactly what you want.
Best of luck though
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Leo
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Which one do you prefer? Makes sense why you broke up.... but you have history with her and you say that you have falled in love with her, is your current g.friend rebound or do you really like her.
That is the question you need to ask yourself... do you really love your ex and do you really wanna be with current g.friend?
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Karnage Corsa
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thanks a lot guys your replies have been really helpful I suppose at the end of the day I know what I want and need its just having the balls to get up and do something about it I am off to the pub now to sort me head out cheers people, regards Paul...
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kinkycorsa
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quote:
Originally posted by Karnage Corsa
thanks a lot guys your replies have been really helpful I suppose at the end of the day I know what I want and need its just having the balls to get up and do something about it I am off to the pub now to sort me head out cheers people, regards Paul...
best thing to do > booze will sort u out 
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Leo
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Good Luck Mate, hope you make the right decision. Let us know
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Super_si
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Which bit stockto u live in?
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Ben
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stick wi 1 u got now , tight as fcuk leaving her , imagine if u were other way round and she left u and went on holiday wi other lad!
u wud be fcuking gutted!
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kinkycorsa
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quote:
Originally posted by Ben- (yorkshire)
stick wi 1 u got now , tight as fcuk leaving her , imagine if u were other way round and she left u and went on holiday wi other lad!
u wud be fcuking gutted!
personally i wud rather he left if it was me > no point in staying togever if not happy! IMO
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Ben
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yeh but he is happy , likes both ! sp in that case , even tho i know what ur thinking bout other 1 and apartment ect ect..... but u wanna think bout it m8!!!!
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Karnage Corsa
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I live in Norton Super Si
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Pablo
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I didn';t read it but women are evil just shag em and tag em! ! Jking! Do wot feels right mate! People can tell you there opinions but its how you feel that counts!
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Karnage Corsa
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I guess so I did a really stupid thing and rang me ex at 2 30 this morning although she was quite happy to speak to me and I ended up telling her about this lass I have been seeing totally regretted it this morning but now I am glad its out in the open
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