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Author mates mum passed away today :(
Icy
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died of cancer
he jus came on msn
dont knw what to say to him
am not good with words
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never easy, just make sure he knows you are there for him if he needs you, if and when he wants to talk he will come to you
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sorry dude. thats shit

dont worry about what to say to him, saying something will be a relief to him cos he wont wanna be ignored or anything
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See if he wants to down the pub for a drink and talk, only if you are a very close friend tho.
Icy
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one of close mates
but dont see much of now coz hes got a gf

duno how to start. :s
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i would just re-assure him that ur thinking of him and the rest of the family and if they need help in anyway that u are there...
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just ask him if hes ok if he needs anything ull help in ne way u can
and ure there if he needs u
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Icy
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he went offline before cud say owt
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sorry to hear that ian, give him a call or go round and give him support, he'll deffo need it just now.
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just say look ...... i am really sorry tp hear about what happened to your mum , she wa a great women and every1 liked her and she will be missed by lots of people , just wanting u to know i am thinkin about you at this time and if theres owt i can do give me a shout .would you like to go to pub for a chat or anything ?


sumart along those lines, feel sorry for him ,i wud no cope if anything happened to my folks *touch wood*
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this the paul walker lookalike?
Icy
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no ^ but stays in next town from u
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who does? where?

[Edited on 19-02-2004 by K17STY]
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Thats bad Ian. My dad died of cancer a year ago and the 1 thing i needed was my friends so make sure he knows ur there 4 him.

Offer 2 take him out 2 i know it might seem like the last thing he would want 2 do but it worked 4 me. My pals dragged me out the week after and it did make me feel better, although i did feel guilty about doing it. But i thought my dad wouldnt of wanted 2 c me miserable, i just thought of it as me ahving a drink 2 celebrate his life. He mite not want 2 but its worth a try.
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Sorry to hear this
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i agree with the above. A good friend's dad died suddenly (was fine one day, 3 days later was dead) and it completely destroyed her cos they were so close. This was about 18 months ago, and shes started to open up a bit, she i know how grateful she is that she knew i was there for her to talk to if she needed to, or even just to get out of the house and sit around watching TV. Its a really harsh thing to happen to anyone, but make sure they know you ar there for them.
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yeah......sorry to hear this

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yea one of my mates dad passed away recently, didn't know what to say to her when i met her.. didn't wanna mention it..
but she told me and she's taken it the best she can.. just tell em that he can talk to you confidentially and that ur there for him etc..

best thing to do is be normal with them, cos they'd want to keep their minds busy not thinkin about it..

its very sad thing
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