fiestakidda
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Registered: 23rd Oct 02
Location: Darlington (Come On Boro)
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Just found out my g/f is in a lot more debt than she is telling me about. I knew she was well over drawn in her bank account but that's easy solved but now i just found out that she's spent 2k on her credit crad but she has always told me that it was only 150.
I don't know what i should do really, should i say summit or just pretend i don't know and be glad it's not me. I don't wanna ruin the relationship but she wants to get a house and get married and stuff but i don't know if i can do that now
HELP 
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R Lee
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Registered: 15th Aug 03
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2k... pfffffffffffffffft
im have more than that. im not worried though, because i know i can pay it back, i choose not to yet.
as for advice, help her out a little 
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Marc
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Registered: 11th Aug 02
Location: York
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tell her to stop shpending perhaps?
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AdiSRI
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Registered: 1st May 02
Location: Berkshire
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cut the card up when shes asleep......
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fiestakidda
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Registered: 23rd Oct 02
Location: Darlington (Come On Boro)
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Thing is she doesn't know i that i know. I just don't know if i should say anything to her??
I know i'm in more debt than that but a the end of the day i know it and am not scared to admit that i am. I though can afford it where as she can't pay everything back
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R Lee
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Registered: 15th Aug 03
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tell her to chillout on the spending spree and take your time to repay the debt. simple as...
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Colin
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Originally posted by fiestakidda
Just found out my g/f is in a lot more debt than she is telling me about. I knew she was well over drawn in her bank account but that's easy solved but now i just found out that she's spent 2k on her credit crad but she has always told me that it was only 150.
I don't know what i should do really, should i say summit or just pretend i don't know and be glad it's not me. I don't wanna ruin the relationship but she wants to get a house and get married and stuff but i don't know if i can do that now
HELP
Tell her theres no way your getting a house or married unless she control's her spending. My mate had to finnish with his girlfriend and kick her out his house cos she was going mental spending money she didnt have, he also had to settle most the dept cos she was buying some stuff for the house - without first consulting him
Get her set straight cos it will only get worse if you ignore it
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Ben
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Registered: 12th Jan 03
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fuck it , shes got her self into it . just leave her too it. dont get involved matey
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fiestakidda
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Registered: 23rd Oct 02
Location: Darlington (Come On Boro)
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I've left her to it she can do what she wants but there no way i'm moving in with her when i know she's in debt like that.
Will only work out bad for me
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