Shelly
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Do you find it easy to forgive someone if they abuse your trust?
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sunnyb
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yesh they have to find a way to make it up to you
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sassyminx
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no i dont, but i find it hard to trust men at the best of times 
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morrisdaboss
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Location: Feltham, have you?
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yes takes a while for me forgive completeley. i seem to give people the impression i have a prob with them without knowing.
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PaulW
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no
once its been done who's to say they wont do it again
i find it hard to trust people as it is...
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Demo
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people are cunts  trust no one 
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Shelly
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I find it easy to forgive people, i'd rather get along with them than have all the hate to deal with.
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PaulW
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quote:
Originally posted by Demo
people are cunts trust no one
i doubt i'll easilly find anyone i can truly trust... cos of all the shit that happened to me in the past 
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sassyminx
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quote:
Originally posted by PaulW
quote:
Originally posted by Demo
people are cunts trust no one
i doubt i'll easilly find anyone i can truly trust... cos of all the shit that happened to me in the past
ditto, sumtimes tho it ruins things cos i get so paranoid i start thinkin stuff, but i truly think ste isnt like that and ive met sum1 i can trust, but im still puttin my guard up til im sure
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chris_uk
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i dont trust anyone...
not even the missis n e more..
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leeshez
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Trust no one not even yourself
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Shelly
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what about if your world is torn apart tho
i still find it easy to forgive
does this mean i am a weak person
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PaulW
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no it doesnt mean your weak
some people react differently to others
others are the sort who forgive
others don't, or never learn to trust proper again
each unto there own at the end of the day!
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Tom
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No I wouldn't at all, mistakes I can forgive but blatant abuse of trust no way.
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Corsa E-Tec
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shelly your not weak, just full of forgiveness 
if my gf broke our tust i would find it well hard to forgive her, but mates i wouldn't really care.
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Shelly
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but that means im more likely to keep getting hurt
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lil miss kinky
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quote:
Originally posted by chris_uk
i dont trust anyone...
not even the missis n e more..
Trust me?
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purple_corsa_gls
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I think i'm too weak. i forgive too easily and let people walk all over me. I'm getting 'welcome' tatood on my forehead next week!
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Shelly
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quote:
Originally posted by purple_corsa_gls
I'm getting 'welcome' tatood on my forehead next week!
or "CUP"
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chris_uk
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quote:
Originally posted by lil miss kinky
quote:
Originally posted by chris_uk
i dont trust anyone...
not even the missis n e more..
Wanna shag me??
y not.. 
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PaulW
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quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
but that means im more likely to keep getting hurt
thats one bad side to it
liek said, simple mistakes yeah can forgive those, but not mass killing of trust
but from my own experience once someone shows there ture colors, no matter how much they say there sorry & that it wont happen again, hey will probs do it again but worse, as they will think they got away with it once so they can get away with it again.
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chris_uk
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quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
what about if your world is torn apart tho
i still find it easy to forgive
does this mean i am a weak person
can you put my number back in your phone thne?
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Shelly
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its still there chris
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chris_uk
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quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
its still there chris
 eeh!
never txt me tho
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Shelly
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nope i have enough people to text
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