Mobby
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Iv always had a thing about my anger, i go mad over anything. i cant help it even if its someone i love.
i get so angry that i dont give a f*** about anything or anyone, i shoot myself in the foot everytime. id literally rather cut my nose to spit my face, i get soo angry i could cry. i dont know how its ever going to stop. my mate whos 34 reackons ill have a heart attack and so does my mum
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Cosmo
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chin up - atleast you can some on here and not have the piss taken out of you....ah wait.
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Matt L
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take a chill pill.
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Jambo
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dont be angry?
Count to ten?
Post on an internet forum?
[Edited on 06-04-2009 by Jambo]
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micra_pete
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tried drinking?
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Cosmo
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quote:
Originally posted by Jambo
dont be angry?
bet he never thought of that one Jambo 
Sometimes life is so simple.
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Brett
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Cut out the green tbh
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jibjob
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nah i kind of know how you feel. i get angry over pretty much anything to do with family, friends or girlfriend.
it helps loads if you talk to them about it. i found it helped and it helps you understand why you get angry. like i get jealous alot which makes me angry and talking about it helps me control it and makes me think that sometimes i am being stupid and do need to chill out.
hope that helps a bit mate 
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Mobby
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quote:
Originally posted by Jambo
dont be angry?
Count to ten?
Post on an internet forum?
dont be angry... dont know how that will work.
count to ten anyone who can count to ten while there angry isnt angry enough!! i cant think about anything except what made me angry, or doing harm to the person who did.
post on a interent forum?? thats not bad, wide range of veiws and maybe someone who can tell me what anger managment is all about. guessing i think its people who sit in a circle breath in and out, count to ten and act out angry situations.
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sand-eel
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take it out on a small child?
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Mobby
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quote:
Originally posted by loafofbrett
Cut out the green tbh
i just hope it aint that, i blame a factor in my upbrinding!
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jibjob
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quote:
Originally posted by sand-eel
take it out on a small child?
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Mobby
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quote:
Originally posted by sand-eel
take it out on a small child?
my younger brother is bigger than me
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jibjob
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just try and step back from a situation mate and try blocking it all out. walk away if you have to. i find that helps when youre in a bad situation
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Mobby
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quote:
Originally posted by jibjob
just try and step back from a situation mate and try blocking it all out. walk away if you have to. i find that helps when youre in a bad situation
thats the thing. i couldnt care about not being angry when im angry.
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Brett
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quote:
Originally posted by mobby
quote:
Originally posted by loafofbrett
Cut out the green tbh
i just hope it aint that, i blame a factor in my upbrinding!
You're a paranoid android mate.
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Sean-B
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i get this  it's well annoying, i just find walking away and trying to look at the situation form someone elses point of view.
i also no exactly what you mean when you say 'id literally rather cut my nose to spit my face' with my GF i'd sooner get in a blazing row than just admit im wrong
the best thing i did was tell her exactly this, and now when i get really mad, she just trys to turn it round to use laughing about it
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C2RL R
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i used to snap at the slightest thing right up until this time last year. used to do my mates heads in but luckily they stook with me and told me how pissed off they are with me. i spent about 6 months trying to better myself and i think i have achieved it. just takes a bit of self control i think.
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BluKoo
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quote:
Originally posted by mobby
id literally rather cut my nose to spit my face
Fair enough cutting off your nose despite your face, but cutting it off to spit your face?  Thats just crazy talk
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--DAN--
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quote:
Originally posted by Sean-B
i also no exactly what you mean when you say 'id literally rather cut my nose to spit my face'
I'm glad you do, made no sense at all to me.
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Sean-B
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quote:
Originally posted by --DAN--
quote:
Originally posted by Sean-B
i also no exactly what you mean when you say 'id literally rather cut my nose to spit my face'
I'm glad you do, made no sense at all to me.
didn't notice that actually read the first 5 words and just presumed it was the old cliche
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Jambo
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only you can control your anger Mobby, maybe seek proffesional advice if it troubles you greatly?
At the end of the day, you are in control of yourself, wont be easy to change habitual behaviour, but thats not to say it cant be done.
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ClaireF
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i know what u mean lol
i dont fight am not a fighting person but wen i get into a temper i go mad, i go mad. I was having an argument with ma sis and she either pushed me or hit me and i went mad and started punching her in the face and didnt stop till my mum pulled me of her. I didnt mean to but lost ma temper. She ended up having to go to hospital. Not happened since though lol
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John
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Fiesty one aren't you 
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ClaireF
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ma knuckle miss-shaped now lol
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